Ukukhethwa kwezicathulo zesikolo intombazana ingaba vavanyo kubazali. Emva kwakho konke, izicathulo mazifanele zikhulule, zenzeke, zithandekayo, zizakhele, kwaye zibaluleke kakhulu - zifanele zizithande umfana wesikolo. Emva kwakho konke, zikhumbule ngokwakho esikolweni: uhlala ufuna ukuba nezinto ezintle, izambatho onokuzijonga ngathi ungumfazi. Ngoko ungalibali ukuphulaphula umbono weentombi ngokwakhe, xa ukhetha izicathulo zesikolo. Kodwa masiqwalasele ngokuthe ngqo ukuba zeziphi izicathulo ezifunekayo ezikolweni, ukuze abazali nabazali bathande, kwaye bahlangabezane nazo zonke iimfuno ngokubanzi. Umbuzo awulula, kodwa kulula ukuyiqonda.
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Izicathulo zesikolo ezintombazana eziselula
Umzekelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuthatha isigqibo malunga nemodeli yezicathulo ozithengayo kumntwana wakho. Enyanisweni, ukusuka kumzekelo ngokwawo, kukho imigaqo-nkqubo ekhethiweyo.
Ukuba ukhetha izicathulo zesikolo zezingane kwiintombazana, kufuneka zikhunjulwe ukuba kubantwana (abafundi bee-bakala ezantsi, ngokukodwa) izihlangu zifanele zihambelane nemimiselo yamathambo. Okokuthi, kuyinqweneleka ukuba ugcine umlenze womntwana kwindawo efanelekileyo kwaye akavumelanga ukuba uthandwa kangaka ngoku "clubfoot". Izicathulo zezingane ezikolweni zihlala zineendlela eziqhelekileyo: izicathulo ezikhululekile ezinomphunga ojikelezileyo kunye neengcambu. Ezi zihlangu zenziwe ngokubanzi kwisikimu sombala esinqandekileyo, esifanelekileyo kwisifananiso sesikolo, kodwa unokufumana iimodeli ezicacileyo. Le shoe ikhululekile kakhulu ukumbatha kwaye ilungile kumntwana ngokwemizimba yamazinyo.
Kubafundi-abafundi besikolo esiphakathi nesiphakamileyo, izicathulo zesikolo ezinjalo zezingane azisayifanelekile, kuba zifuna into emangalisayo kunye nefashini. Inketho efanelekileyo kulo mzekelo izicathulo ze-ballet . Bahlala bekhululekile kakhulu, bayakwazi ukuhamba kwaye umlenze awukhathala, nangona uchitha yonke imini ezinyaweni zakho (oko kwenzeka rhoqo ngabafundi besikolo). Ukongezelela, iingubo ze-ballet zihlala zifestile kwaye zikholisa ngemimandla eninzi. Unako ukuthabatha izicathulo ezivulekileyo zesikolo, izicathulo ze-ballet, ezifanelekile ekwindla nasekwindla yokuqala, kunye neenguqu ezivaliweyo. Ukongeza, izicathulo ze-ballet zivela kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo kunye neendlela ezihlukeneyo, ezenza ukuba zikhange kakhulu emehlweni amantombazana. Emva koko, nawuphi na umfazi ufuna ukugqoka izihlangu ezihle esikolweni.
Ukuba ulungele ukuvumela intombi yakho ukuba igqoke izithende, ungathenga izicathulo zesikolo kunye nesithende esincinci okanye kwi-wedge, okubhekwa njengento elula. Kancinci ukuqala ukufundisa intombazana ukuba ihambe kwiintendelezo zakhe zingabikho kwibanga lesibhozo ukuya kwibanga lesithoba, ngenxa yokuba le nto isakhono ebomini bakhe isoloko isiluncedo. Kwaye izicathulo zesikolo ezintle ngeesithende ziya kumnceda ukuba azive ethembele.
Imibala kunye nemihlobiso. Njengoko ubona, abazali abaninzi bakhetha izicathulo kubantwana, ngokusekelwe kwimiqathango efanayo nefom ngokwayo: abamnyama okanye abamhlophe kwaye bengenayo i-frills. Kodwa ekubeni le mithetho ayisebenzisi kwizicathulo, konke esi sigqibo asinakubizwa ngokuba sichanekile, kuba kufuneka kubekho iinkcukacha eziqhafazayo kunye nesicatshulwa kwisifanekiso somntwana wentombazana. Makhe abe zihlangu. Ngoko ke, khetha umbala wabo kunye nencoko kunye nomntanakho, ngoko ke ukuba bobabini kuni kufuneka niphule. Umzekelo, izicathulo ezibomvu kwiipezi ezimhlophe ziya kuba ngumbala obalaseleyo wombala. Kwaye ukuba usenamathela ezicathulo ezimnyama, zenzeke ukuba zihlotshwe ngezinye iinkcukacha zetsimbi okanye iphethini engaphenduliyo.
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