Unokukhetha njani iimpahla ezifanelekileyo?

Ukujonga umzobo, akufuneki ukufumana imodeli kuphela, kodwa izinto ezisebenzayo. Ngelishwa, akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ukukhetha kakuhle iimpahla, ukwenzela ukuba enze konke okusemandleni akhe. Enyanisweni, kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwimpahla ekhethiweyo, kwaye akukhona nje ngokubonakala. Ngoko, kufuneka ukhululeke, ufudumale ebusika, ungadli ngaphezu kwehlobo, ungadalali kwaye ubhekane nazo.

Cinga kuqala indlela yokukhetha umbala ofanelekileyo wengubo. Khumbula ukuba umbala wombala weengubo kufuneka ube kufuphi nombala wamehlo akho kunye netoni yesikhumba. Umbala wendawo yonke uthathwa njengomhlophe, kuba unokudibaniswa nawuphi na omnye. Imibala ecacileyo ingadibaniswa negrey, kunye nokudibanisa imibala engathathi hlangothi. Kodwa, nangayiphi na imeko, musa ukudibanisa ngaphezu kwemibala emithathu eqaqambileyo kwiingubo.

Ukuba uqonda indlela yokukhetha izambatho ezifanelekileyo, ngokokuqala kufuneka wenze isigqibo malunga nohlobo lwakho kunye nomoya. Ukuba uhamba ngosuku, ngoko ke isitayela esilungileyo kunokuba kube lula ukuthanda u-romanticism. Ukusebenzisa ukhetho olwamkelekileyo yinto ebizwa ngokuba yi-office style, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwaye ukuba uya kwidlovini, awukwazi ukucinga ngesitayela semidlalo. Apha ungayiqwalasela umbuzo wendlela yokukhetha imidlalo efanelekileyo yezemidlalo? Gxila kule methrikhi elandelayo:

Ukuba awukwazi ukuba ufunde ngokufanelekileyo indlela yokukhetha iimpahla, kufuneka uqale uqonde iimpawu zesibalo sakho. Ngokomzekelo, umzimba wezemidlalo, iidekethi ezimfutshane kunye neebhulukhwe ezinomlenze ophezulu zilungele kakuhle. Amaqhinga omfutshane afanele aphephe ukugqoka amabhuloho awanciphisa ukukhula. Abanini beenyawo ezibanzi kunye namagxa amancinci kufuneka agxininise emzimbeni ophezulu ngoncedo lwemibala elula yempahla kunye nezixhobo.

Phakathi kwezinye izinto, kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokukhetha ngokufanelekileyo isethi yempahla. Kule meko, kufuneka uqale ngento enzima kakhulu kwisigqoba sakho sambatho. Ngoko, ukuba kunzima ukuba uthabathe iifestile zakho, zithenge ngokukhuselekileyo (ngokuqwalasela uhlobo lomfanekiso ), kwaye sele sele ulungelelanise ezinye iingubo, ukhetho olusekelwe kumfanekiso ofuna ukuwenza. Musa ukulibala malunga neskimu sombala, njengento ebalulekileyo yokukhetha isethi seengubo.

Njengoko ubona, umbuzo wokukhetha iindlela ezifanelekileyo ufumana impendulo kwizinto ozikhethile kunye nezixhobo zohlobo lwakho.