Kubonakala ngathi kunokuba lula - uthathe i-cotake kwaye uzigcinele, uphelele, ujabulele. Kodwa hayi! Akuzona zonke iikati ezizithandayo abantu abanqanda inkululeko yabo. Amanye awanikiweyo nonke. Unjalo uhlobo lwawo - "Ndiyinkati, kwaye ndihamba ngedwa." Khumbula?
Kwaye maxa wambi kwenzeka ukuba ikati iyamemeza kwaye iyakudla xa uyithatha esandleni sakho. Mhlawumbi wenza ngokungahambi kakuhle kwaye ubangela intlungu okanye ukuphazamiseka. Nangona kubonakala ukuba kulula kakhulu ukuthatha isilwanyana kwaye uyigcine, eqinisweni, idinga ubuchule. Ngokukodwa, ukuba isilwanyana sinesifo esithile, kwaye unokulimaza.
Ungathatha njani ikati ezandleni zakho?
Okokuqala, kufuneka uthabathe isilwanyana ngokuchanekileyo. Kodwa ngaphambi koko, qiniseka ukuba akusikho ulwaphulo kuwe, akesabi nguwe, kwaye ngokubanzi, lukhululekile kwaye luzolile. Ngaphandle kokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, sondela kwikati, uthethe naye ngomusa, uthi hello. Kuza kuthatha ixesha lokuba ikati okanye ikati ukuzisebenzisa. Ukubetha intloko yekati, emva kweendlebe kunye ne-chin, ukuba ikuvumela ukuba wenze njalo.
Zonke ezi zinto ziyimfuneko, ngakumbi ukuba isilwanyana asiqhelekanga kuwe. Ngoko wena kunye nekati uza kuba nexesha lokuvavanya imeko, ukuze ukwazi ukuba mncinane. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ikati ivakalelwa kukuba ukhuselekile nawe, uya kuphumla, kwaye uza kubona kwaye uzive.
Ikati inika uphawu lokuba ilungele ukuya ezandleni zakho - iqala ukuxubha kumlenze wakho okanye ingalo, ukuhlutha , ukujonga kwamehlo akho. Ukuba ubona oku, kwaye kungekhona ukucasula kwakhe kwaye uzama ukuluma nokukhangela, ngoko uye waba ngumhlobo naye, kwaye unokuqhubeka ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
Ngoku faka enye yezandla zakho phantsi komzimba wekati nje emva kweepaji zangaphambili, kunye nesandla sesibini ukusibamba phantsi kweemilenze zenyama kunye nokuphakamisa. Ngokukhawuleza, yenza udibaniso phakathi komzimba wakho kunye nekati - oku kuya kwenza ukuba uzive ukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo.
Indlela yokugcina ikati okanye ikati ezandleni zakho?
Eyona nto inzima emva, unxibelelana ngokusondelene nesilwanyana, ithemba kwaye ilindele ukuba ube nethenda kwaye ufudumele. Yigcine kwinqanaba lesifuba sakho, ucinezela ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ungagxininisi. Isikhundla sekati kufuneka sibe malunga nxamnye-singagxininisi kwaye singadluli. Naliphi na into engathandekiyo yecati ngokukhawuleza uzama ukuyeka, ukukrazula kunye nokukhwaza ngokukhawuleza.
Intloko yekati, xa uyibambe, kufuneka ibe ngaphezu kweqondo lesibini. Khumbula - awunakuze uphendule ikati!
Kubalulekile ukuziva xa ikati ifuna ukushiya izandla. Uya kuqalisa ukutshintsha, ukuhamba, zama ukukhulula. Musa ukummelana nokuthanda kwakhe, kungenjalo uya kuziva ekhululekile, ukuxhalaba kwakhe kunye noyiko kuya kukhula, ngoko ngexesha elilandelayo kufuneka wenze konke ukususela ekuqaleni, ukunyusa kwakhona.
Musa ukulahla ikati, uyinciphise kwi-paws 4 uze ususe izandla. Kakade ke, ngamanye amaxesha ikati lingakwazi ukuxhuma kuwe, ngoko ulungele oko.