Umsebenzi womfazi unzima: akafunekanga nje ukuba abe ngumfazi womfazi, kodwa nokuba uyazi imfihlelo yendlela yokuba yinto enqwenelekayo kumyeni wakhe. Kwaye ekude abafazi bahamba ngomhla womtshato , owona mkhulu ngakumbi. Nangona kunjalo, uhambo lobomi lubonisa ukuba uyayigqiba ngempumelelo xa yinkwenkwezi eyayiqonda isidingo sokuhlala kwintanda yakhe yintanda, eyona yodwa kwaye ifunwa.
Ndingathanda njani ukuba umyeni wam kwakhona?
Okokuqala kukho konke, ngokungaqhelekanga, thanda wena. Ewe, ewe, nguwe. Khumbulani xa ixesha lokugqibela lithengisa okanye lithengela into entsha, wenza i-hairstyle enhle, yayinomyeni wayo kwindawo yokutyela okanye i-cafe? Musa ukukhumbula? Emva koko sibhala kwaye sifezekise isicwangciso.
Zibukele kwisibuko uze uphendule ngokunyanisekileyo: Ngaba uthanda wena? Ukuba iimpendulo zithi "Hayi" okanye "Andizi," cinga ngako, ukuba awuyithandi ngokwenene, kutheni uthanda umyeni wakho ngendlela okhoyo ngayo ngoku? Ngoko-ke ngenxa yoko:
- senza uphicotho lwe-wardrobe kwaye siyeke ukugqoka "izinto ezilungileyo", ezathengwa iminyaka eyi-3-10 edlulileyo;
- uye kwi-hairdresser kwaye wenze i-hairstyle yefestile, ucinge malunga nokuba ungayithanda njani indoda.
- Sithengela ngaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi ;
- sisusa isambatho esiqingqiweyo kunye namagumbi okudala, ngokuba nasekhaya ufanele ulungele kakuhle kwaye ukhangele;
- Ukuthumela abantwana ekutyeleleni, siza kuququzelela isondlo sothando "ezimbini": usakhumbula ukuba yenziwe njani? Nangona kunjalo, ukwenzela ukuba kusihlwa, ukulungiselela lo myeni, ukuze angadanwa kwaye adideke ngenxa yokusabela kwakhe okungenakulinganiswa.
Masibe ngukuhlwa nje kuphela kuwe, kuhlaziywe, kuhlaziywe, kunye neqabane lakho, ukukhangela ngothando umfazi wakhe othandekayo kunye nomfazi onqwenelayo. Ungesabi ukubuyela iminyaka emininzi (okanye amashumi eminyaka) emva: le ntlawulo ingaba mnandi kakhulu kwaye iza kusombulula ngokukhawuleza ingxaki yokwenza isondo kwaye ifaneleke.