Xa itekisi lomntu elitshatyalalayo litshisa, uphawu luyakubonisa ukuba umntu uyamkhumbula. Nangona kunjalo, ukuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo kwesi siqalo kuxhomekeke kwimini yeveki inxulumene nayo nokuba ingahambelani naziphi na ezinye iimvakalelo.
Kuthetha ntoni ukuba itekisi elilungileyo litshisa?
Akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba kutheni itekisi elungileyo livuthayo kunye nantoni na. Zama ukubamba intsimbi yegolide phezu kwesikhumba: ukuba kukho umnyama omnyama, ngoko umntu uqalekisa okanye ufune ukuba ufe. Ukuba ibhanti ibomvu, ke bayathetha ngawe ngendlela engathathi hlangothi, eqaqambileyo - udunyiswa.
Ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo okokuthi isitya esinokutshisa esifanelekileyo sinikeza yona, unokuyiqwalasela umhla weveki:
- 1 - kungekudala uza kufakwa kumntu omtsha;
- I-2 - kukho ubungakanani obuphezulu bokungqubana nesibini sakho;
- Ukuhamba ngokubambisana oku-3 okanye nomhla wokuthandana, oya kuba mnandi kakhulu;
- Intlanganiso yexesha elide elilindelekileyo elithatha ixesha elide elithandwayo, intsebenzo enxulumene nalo, umnqweno;
- 5 - lindela iindaba;
- 6 - kukho intlanganiso, kungeyonto imnandi;
- I-7-iya kukwazi ukunqumla kunye nabahlobo kunye nokuzonwabisa kumntu ontle.
Isayinwe - ngokutshatyalaliswa kwesinye isihlathi kunye nendlebe
Ukuba awutshisi nje isihlathi esifanelekileyo, kodwa kunye neendlebe, ngoko ixabiso lesiguqu litshintsha ngandlela-thile. Inokwenzeka ukuba, luphawu lokuba uye waba ngongoma wengxoxo echaphazelekayo yeqela lonke labantu. Ngokomzekelo, umntu uvumele ukuhleka ngawe kwiqela, elikhawuleza lasasazeka kwaye laba yipropati eqhelekileyo. Yilungiselele imibono yabantu abanomdla kwaye ungayikhokheli ingqalelo . Ngokuqhelekileyo, iingxoxo ezinjalo zikhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuba into entsha yokuhleba ivela kwiindawo eziphezulu. Ukongeza, ihlathi kunye nentloko evuthayo ngexesha elifanayo sinokukhumbuza into oyilibala ngayo: umkhosi wokubambisana nomntu othandekayo, usuku lokuzalwa lomntu osondeleyo, intlanganiso yezifundo, njl njl.