Kutheni iidemon?

Ngamanye amaxesha, sibona kwiphupha oko kuthukisa kwaye kusiphazamise, kwaye siqala ukucinga ukuba into esiyibonile njengesibonakaliso esibi okanye isixwayiso ngengozi ayikho. Emva koko, ukuba, sitsho, sicinga ngezinto esiziphuphayo malunga nomtyholi eneempondo, akukho nto ngaphandle kweengcamango ezimbi ezifika entloko. Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo yonke into ebonakala ngathi iyingozi kakhulu. Omnye unokujonga kuphela kwiincwadi ekuchazeni amaphupha kwaye yonke into iya kuhlaselwa.

Yintoni iidemon eziphuphayo ngokutolika iincwadi ezahlukeneyo zokuphupha?

Ngokwezinto esinokuzifunda kuzo naziphi na iincwadi zokuphupha, abemi bee-horni abahlali bexakeka. Ukuphendula umbuzo othi kungani sibona iidemon ephupheni, kwaye kutheni sifuna ukuphupha isicwangciso esingaqhelekanga, simele sikhumbule okokuqala isithethi esasethulayo. Emva koko, ukuba uMtyholi wakunikela ukuba ummbambe ngomsila, ubuthongo bunokuthiwa yi-harbinger yenhlanhla , kwaye inhlanhla ayilindelekanga, kungekudala kwaye inene.

Ukuba uthetha ngokuthula nomthunywa wesihogo, ngoko umbono awuxeleli iingxaki, ingakumbi ukuba ingxoxo iyaqhubeka etafileni. Ngokuphambene noko, ibali elinjalo lisitshela malunga neenzuzo ezikufuphi kwaye silumkisa ukuba, nangona impumelelo , umntu akufanele ahluthe kwiimvakalelo ezinjengekratshi. Ngokutsho kwezi zinguqulelo, akudingekile ukuba ucinge ngeengxaki eziza kwenzeka emva kokubonwa kwiphupha, kuba oko umtyholi akwenzayo ngamaphupha, ngoko ke kuncedo kuphela. Ewe, kwimeko xa uphikisana noMtyholi, kufuneka ulindele ukuxabana nomntu osondeleyo. Ngaphezu koko, kuya kuvela ingxabano, mhlawumbi, "ukususela ekuqaleni".

Ukuba ufuna ukufumanisa oko umtyholi akwenzayo ngomntu ophuphayo, Okokuqala kufuneka ucacise ukuba ngaba uyazi indoda okanye ibhinqa ephupha. Kwimeko apho uphendule "yee", ulala u lumkisa malunga nokungcatshiswa, kodwa ukuba impendulo yakho "ayikho", kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu, ngokukodwa malunga nabahlobo abatsha. Emva koko, lo mbono awunanto ngaphandle kokungcatshiswa.

Iphupha eliphazamisayo nokutolika

Kodwa yintoni ekusebenziseni ukuqaphela ukuba kufuneka ulindele ingxaki ukuba unomoya oqinileyo kunye nemvula, ukuba unokusebenzisa nje incwadi yephupha? Ngokuqhelekileyo, into esiyibona ebusuku iyisilumkiso, oko kuthetha ukuba nangona ukutolika akuyiyo yonwabileyo, unako ukutshintsha ingqiqo ngokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo.