Xa umntu osondeleyo ehamba ebomini bakhe, kuhlala kunzima kwaye izalamane zihlala zibuhlungu kwaye zifuna. Ukunceda umphefumlo ukhululeke kwilo lizwe, kubalulekile ukufunda umthandazo wesikhumbuzo. Unokwenza oku ekhaya nasebandleni, ubeka ikhandlela kwabanye.
Umthandazo kubazali abahambe
Abantu abaphilayo baphendukela kuThixo ukuze basindise umphefumlo womfi kwaye baqhubele phambili uThixo ukuba abe nenceba. Kubalulekile ukuphawula kunye nokuba ukucela abafileyo kunceda ukugcina nokuphila, kuba kulungelelanise ukuvumelana kwasezulwini. Oku kunceda ukubaleka kwimihla ngemihla kwaye uzikhusele ebubini. Umthandazo wokuphumula komphefumlo womzali oshonile unceda ukwamkela ukukhupheka nokuzinqabisa, kwaye uya kuyenza lula ukuba adlulise izilingo emva koxolo.
Enye indlela yokubonisa inkxalabo kubazali abahambayo kukufunda i-Psalter. Kubalulekile ukufunda enye ikathisma imihla ngemihla kwiintsuku ezingama-40 zokuqala emva kokufa kwesizalwane. Oku kuya kunceda ukubonelela umphefumlo ukuzola ngokukhawuleza, inkululeko yenkululeko kunye nethuba lokuhlala eParadesi. Unako ukuthetha itekisi yomthandazo nangaliphi ixesha lomhla.
Umthandazo ngomama ofileyo
Ukulahlekelwa ngumzali luvavanyo olunzima kumntu kunoma yiphina ubudala, kwaye ukuze kunciphise imeko yakhe kwaye uncede umphefumlo womntu wasemzini, umntu kufuneka aphendukele kuThixo. Umthandazo womama ofileyo ufundwa, njengeentsuku zokuqala ezingama-40 emva kokufa kwakhe, kunye nayo yonke imihla yokukhumbula, isikhumbuzo sokuzalwa nokufa. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho mntu uvimbela izicelo zokufunda nanini na, xa ufuna. Kubalulekile ukuphendukela kuThixo ngentliziyo ecocekileyo.
Ngethuba lokufunda umthandazo kwabafileyo, umntu kufuneka azame ukulahla intlungu yakhe kunye nokuphelelwa yithemba. Intlungu ebumnyama kukuphula umthetho omkhulu, obeka umthwalo onzima kumntu othandaza nomama oshonile. Kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba isikhalazo sokuphumula singalawulwa kwicawa, kodwa kukulungele ukufunda izibhalo ngokwakho. Ungasebenzisi iifoto okanye izinto eziqhelekileyo, njengoko oku kuya kuthathwa njengesono. Kubalulekile ukuthatha ikhandlela lecawa kwaye uyibeke kufuphi ne icon.
Umthandazo ngenxa kababa osele
Umbhalo ongasentla ungasetyenziselwa ukucela inceba kaThixo kumntu oshonile. Ukongeza kwiimibhalo zengqungquthela, omnye unokukwazi ukubuyela kuMandla aphezulu ukusuka entliziyweni entliziyweni ngamagama abo. Umphefumlo womphefumlo uyimfihlelo yenkolo eyinkimbinkimbi, eyaziwayo ngoncedo lwemithandazo kunye neenkonzo zecawa. Ukuba ungenzi nto, loo mntu uyamncisha uyise wenkxaso kwaye kuya kuba nzima kuye ukuba ahambe kwinkqubo yokuhlengwa kweephene ezenziwe ngexesha lobomi bakhe. Umthandazo woxolo lomphefumlo wobawo oshonile makafundwa ngokucokisekileyo nangomdla.
"Yithemba, Nkosi, umphefumlo wekhoboka lakho elilahlekileyo (igama), uze umxolele zonke iziphoso zokukhululeka kunye nokungafuni, uze umnike uBukumkani bamaZulwini. E gameni likaYise, loNyana, loMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "
Umthandazo womhlolokazi ngomyeni ofileyo
Ukushiya ubomi bomlingane othandekayo uqhuba umfazi kwixinzelelo ejulile kwaye uvakalelwa kukuphelelwa yithemba. Kwimeko enjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ungakhohlwa ukuba umphefumlo womntu ofileyo udinga inkxaso. Ngenxa yale njongo, kukho umthandazo okhethekileyo kumlingane oshonile, omele ukuba ufundwe ngokutsha kwiintsuku ezingama-40 emva kokufa. Ukongeza, kufuneka uthethe iiNdumiso imihla ngemihla, zonke ii-kathismes ezingama-20. Omnye wacetyiswa ukuba aye ethempelini ukwenza isikhumbuzo aze ahlele inkonzo yomngcwabo, i-sorokoust, i-liturgy kunye ne-requiem.
Ukukunceda ukuba usinde kwintlungu, ibhinqa liyanconywa ukuba liphendukele kuThixo kunye nesicelo sokunika amandla okusinda buhlungu kunye nokuhlala. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukuva aze anike amandla okujamelana nale ntlekele. Akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuvuma nokufumana iSidlo , kunye nokuthetha nombingeleli malunga noko kwenzekayo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umthandazo womntu ofileyo ungenziwa ngamazwi akho, into ephambili kukuba kufuneka ivela entliziyweni ecocekileyo, kuba kubalulekile ukuba umphefumlo womlingane uphinde uhlangane noThixo.
Umthandazo womyeni ngomfazi ofileyo
Kukho izicelo zokuthandaza ukuba akukho mntu unokufunda umntu, kwaye eli qela liquka iicatshulwa ezijoliswe kubahlolokazi nabahlolokazi. Zonke iziphakamiso ezichazwe ngasentla nazo zamkelekile kule meko. Umthandazo ngomfazi ofileyo unokufundwa esontweni okanye ekhaya, ngokubaluleke kakhulu - ukuhlala wedwa, ukuze ukwazi ukugqiba ngokupheleleyo kwiintetho zengxoxo kunye namaGunya aPhakamileyo. Kunconywa ukuba uthandaze phambi kwe icon, ekufuphi kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela. Bhengeza isikhalazo esinokholo olukhulu ebomini obungunaphakade lomphefumlo kwaye udibana emva koMgwebo Wokugqibela.
Umama kaMama kubantwana abashiyekileyo
Abafundisi bancomela ukuba bathandaze ethempelini, kodwa kwakhona ikhaya elibhenela kwiZizwe eziPhakamileyo zixhobo zokuhlangula abantu abaswelekileyo. Umthandazo wabantwana abafileyo kunye nabanye abantu ababizwa ekhaya baya kuthiwa "umthetho weseli". Kukho isikhalazo esiphezulu kubantu abafayo - isikhumbuzo kwaye sinokufumaneka kuyo yonke incwadi yomthandazo. Icawa iyalela imihla ngemihla ukuba icele uThixo abantwana abadlulileyo, bafunda le mibhalo elandelayo:
Umthandazo wabangabhaptizwa
Icawa ihambelana nemiphefumlo elahlekileyo, oko kukuthi, abantu abafileyo abangazange babhaptizwe ngexesha lokuphila kwabo, kodwa kukho umthandazo ukuba izalamane zingazifunda. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba abantu abangabhaptizwanga abanakwenzeka ukuba balawule ityala ecaweni. Umthandazo wabantu abangabhaptizwanga abafileyo bangabhekiselwa kubangcwele kuphela, kodwa kuThixo, njengoko wonke umntu ophile ubomi obulungileyo unelungelo lokuxolelwa nokukhuselwa.
Kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga nomgcini ongumfel 'ukholo onguMartyr, obonwa ngokuba ngumphathi welahlekileyo. Ngethuba lokuphila kwakhe, wadala izinto ezininzi ezintle, efumana ithuba lokunceda amaKristu awayevalelwa ngenxa yokholo lwabo. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umthandazo womfel 'ukholo u-Uaru uyancipha ngenxa yokuhlushwa ngonaphakade komphefumlo ongabhaptizwanga, kodwa akuqinisekisi ukuba indawo eParadesi.
Umthandazo ngomntu oshonile de iintsuku ezingama-40
Umthandazo weSikhumbuzo uthathwa njengembopheleleko kubo bonke abakholwayo. Ngokutsho kwecawa, kubalulekile ukufunda imilayezo yomthandazo kwiintsuku zokuqala ezingama-40 emva kokufa. Zonke iitekisi ezingentla zifanelekile oku. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba kuvunyelwe ukuthetha imithandazo emizini enqatshelwe ukuba ikhankanywe kwiinkonzo zecawa.
Umthandazo kubantu abafileyo kufuneka ufundwe ecaweni rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Yenza oku kungekuphela kwiintsuku ezijoliswe kukukhunjulwa, kodwa nakwezinye izihlandlo. Eyona nto imfutshane ngumthandazo omfutshane kwi-Divine Liturgy, xa idini elingenanjengegazi linikelwe kuThixo. Emva koko ulandela i-requiem, ekhonjiswa phambi kwetafile ekhethekileyo. Ngexesha lakhe, kwimemori yabantu abashiye ubomi babo, bashiye iminikelo yabo. Omnye kufuneka alawulwe i-sorokoust, eqala ngomhla wokufa kwaye idlule iintsuku ezingama-40.
Omnye kufuneka akhulume ngendlela yokuthandaza emangcwabeni, okubhekwa njengendawo engcwele apho izidumbu zabantu abafileyo ziphumla ngaphambi kovuko lwaso. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ucocekile ingcwaba, kwaye umnqamlezo uthathwa njengomshumayeli weCawa. Xa ufika emangcwabeni, kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela uze ufunde umthandazo. Awunakuyidla kwaye uphuze ethuneni, kuba unqambi inkumbulo yomntu ofileyo. Intsalela yamahedeni isithethe sokushiya ingilazi ye-vodka kunye neqhekeza lesonka kwisangcwaba.