Okwangoku, ukuqhawula umtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa komfazi kunemimiselo ethile ekufuneka iyaziwa ngokuqaliswa okufanelekileyo nokuqhubekayo kwenkqubo. Kule nqaku siya kukuxelela ngabo.
Ungayifaka njani umtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Okokuqala, kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umtshato ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwi-initiative yendoda yakhe akunakwenzeka. Ngaphezu koko, phantsi kwemithetho yaseRashiya ne-Ukraine, iqabane alinalo ilungelo lokufaka isicelo sokuqhawula umtshato ngaphandle kwemvume yomlingane kwaye kungakapheli unyaka emva kokuzalwa komntwana osanda kuzalwa.
Ibhinqa, ngokuchaseneyo, inelungelo lokuqalisa inkqubo yomtshato nanini na kwaye kungakhathaliseki ixesha lokulinda umntwana. Kunikezelwe ukuba izivumelwano ezidibeneyo zifikeleleke phakathi kwabatshatileyo kwaye abanabantwana abancinane, banokufaka isicelo kwiofisi yeRejista yokubhalisa umtshato xa bekhulelwe kwisinyathelo somfazi.
Ukuba kukho ezinye iimeko ezikhusela inkqubo ngeofisi zombhalisi, loo mfazi uya kufuneka afake izicelo kumagosa omgweba ngesitatimende esifanayo sesibango. Kufuneka ihambisane nesethi yamaphepha afanelekileyo, kuquka nesitifiketi sezokwelapha esibonisa ixesha lokukhulelwa.
Inxalenye yenkxaso yolu ngxelo, umama ozayo kufuneka avelise umnqweno wokuphelisa ubudlelwane bomtshato, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ufuna ukuqokelela ulondolozo lomntwana oza kuzalelwa kungekudala, kunye naye ngaphambi kokubulawa komntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukukhulelwa akusiyithintelo kunye nesithintelo sokuqhawula umyeni wakhe, kodwa kuphela kwimeko apho lona wesifazane ephikelela ekupheliseni ubudlelwane bomtshato. Ukuba umqashi wokuqhawula umtshato uyindoda, ekuwamkelekeni kwebhengezo yesibango anganqatshwa ngokuphathelele "isikhundla esinqwenelekayo" somlingane.