Kwiminyaka emininzi, iikati ziye zacatshulwa njengezilwanyana ezihambayo kunye nezibonakaliso, zikhetha iinjongo zazo kunye nenkosi. Ngaloo nto, akumangalisi ukuba kwihlabathi lokukhululwa ngokwenene, kwakungamakati aphethwe uluhlu lwezidalwa ezingapheliyo nezizimeleyo.
Kucacile ukuba akusiyo kuphela isigamu esihle sabantu esilwela ngokuqinisekileyo amalungelo akhe kunye nokulwa nemithetho yoobukhokho. Iikati sele ziqhubele phambili kwaye zibonise ihlabathi iinkqubo zabo ezingenakuqhekeka kwabesifazane, kubonakalisa phantse kuzo zonke izenzo. Funda kwiikati, abafazi, banqobe ukwesaba baze bafumane uninzi kwimibini yesibini yokuphila!
1. Le nkati ayikhathaleli ngemigangatho yesilinganiselo esincinane. Ebomini, awukwazi ukuziphikisa nto.
Yidla oko ufuna!
2. Kodwa lo mmeli wehlabathi lekati wagqityibala ngokukhwabanisa kwindlela yokukhwela kwaye ukhetha ukuhamba ngokuziqhenqa ngeempahla kunye nemida.
Musa ukunyamekela abanye kunye neembono zabo. Unelungelo lokukhetha indlela yakho.
3. Amaxesha amaninzi amajelo ashicilela "isiqingatha esibuthathaka", njengabancedi kunye nabasetyhini abaxhomekeke kuninzi. Behave nemithombo yolwazi lwephepha, njengale cat eqinisekisiwe.
Kakade, akukho mfuneko ukuba ugayize amaphephandaba namaphephancwadi zibe ngamaqhezu amancinci. Kodwa, ukuwucima kwabo kulungile.
4. Phakathi kwabantu, iikati zenza umsebenzi ofihlakeleyo wokulandelela abantu abaxhatshazwa ngokwesini, ukuphazamisa iingqondo zabasetyhini.
Ngoko ke, qaphela kakhulu kwizenzo zabo. Iintlola zifihla yonke indawo.
5. Iikati zihlala ziyingcambu yokubakhupha abo bazama ukubenza baqikelele ngeengcamango zabo. Kwaye balahla abanqweno-abanengqondo-ngokuchanekileyo.
Yinakekele iinjongo zakho kwaye ukhumbule ukuba kwimfazwe zonke iindlela zilungile! Ngomlinganiselo olinganiselweyo kunye nesakhelo sobunzima.
6. Ngaphandle neekati zasekhaya zilwa nesithuba somntu ongekho umntu onokuthintela.
Thatha umzekelo kubo kwaye ungavumeli abantu babonise apho kwaye uziva njani.
7. Le nkca ngokucacileyo ayinandaba nokubukeka kwayo, kuba eshahleni uyindoda yangempela. Kodwa akadingi ukubonakalisa oku kwabanye. Ubuhle babasetyhini abukhatshwa!
Into ephambili kukuba uzive njengendoda ephuma ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Yaye ungazami ukumelana neengcamango ezijikelezayo.
8. Lo mkhuhlane oqhekezayo ekhompini yepinki akayena umlandeli wobukhokho. Uthanda nje umbala obomvu kunye nemihlobiso eqaqambileyo.
Khumbula ukuba ukukhishwa kwe-banal shades kunye nemihlobiso ayithathwa njengengeniso kwimigqabini yabesifazane.
9. Iyiphi ikati ehloniphayo, ukulwa namalungelo amabhinqa, ukutyelela iiklabhu ezingaziwa ngamabhinqa.
Ngelishwa, kuphela ngokudibanisa, unokufikelela kwisiphumo esifunileyo.
10. Le nkati inzima umngani kumdaniso, ubonisa ukungabikho kombono wokungalingani.
Musa ukwabelana ngokungahambelani.
11. Ibhokhwe ebomvu, nayo yonke into ebonakala ngayo, yabonisa indlela yokusabela ngokuchanekileyo kwiintlanzi zobudenge bobulili. Kubonakala ngathi umntu ulahlekelwe ngumhlobo wakhe ngobusuku.
Khumbulani abahlobo kunye nabanye ukuba akukho onke amahlaya afanelekileyo. Mayeyike!
12. Le nkati ikwabelana ngokupheleleyo ngomthwalo womntwana.
Ukususela kwimigudu edibeneyo ihlala isengqiqweni. Yaye ukuba songeza kwiimvavanyo zengcamango efana nengqiqo, isiphumo siya kuphinda sibini. Bonke oomama behlabathi, badibanise!
13. Le nkati ibonisa isimo sengqondo esilungileyo malunga noobukhokho.
Ngendlela, ehleli entanyeni yakho akacingwa njengefestile ixesha elide. Khuphuka ngokukhawuleza entloko. Ukusuka apho ungabona ukufikelela kweenjongo zakho kungcono. Njengoko besithi, hlukana kwaye unqobe!
14. Intandokazi yasekhaya yachaza ngokucacileyo ukuba akazange ahlose ukuphulaphula intetho engumntu oyisiphukuphuku.
Zininzi zisetyenziswe ukuba abafazi abakwazi ukuthetha izinto ezihlakaniphile. Ungavumeli umntakwabo ukuba agubungele umlomo wakho. Okanye uthetha ngokukhululekileyo, okanye uthe cwaka!
15. Le nkati ibonisa kubasetyhini ukuhlukahluka kwendalo yabo.
Emva koko "umfundisi" akukho nkosikazi inokuhlala kude nomzabalazo wokulwa nobukhohlakali!
Iincwadi ezingenasidingo, ezithetha ngokuzonwabisa kobukhokho, kufuneka zitshabalalise.
Umbhalo kwisiqwenga samaphepha: "Ndayiphakamisa iphepheni likabazali ukuba ndikopishe."
Funda kuphela imithombo yolwazi yolwazi kwaye ungagqithisi kwiincwadana ezinxusayo!
17. Ikati eqonda ukuba ukuchithwa kwenkqubo yongxowa-mthetho kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokufumana uluntu kuluntu.
Yeka ukubeka imali kwiibhanki ezintathu-litre kwaye ugcine wena.
18. Kwakhona kwakhona, iikati zibonisa indlela ehambelana ngayo nezinto eziphambene neengcamango zabo.
Mane ulawule ukukhwela kwakho.
19. Le nkati iyacaphukiswa kakhulu ngumvuzo phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini ngomsebenzi ofanayo, ukuba abazami ukufihla ukucaphuka kwabo.
Ungazivumeli ukuba ungaphantsi!
20. Ngaphambi kokuba uphulaphule imbono yomntu, phinda i-pos yekethi emele.
Umnxibelelwano wakho uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba awukwenziwa kwintambo elula kunye nentetho enomdla awunayo.
21. Ikati ezimisele ngokucacileyo ukutshintsha umbono wakho wehlabathi ngokungafani kobulili. Kwaye akazimisele ukubuyela kuyo yonke into.
Mamela umhlobo wakho onomlilo.
22. Kodwa le nto leyo yayikwazi ukuthobela indoda leyo.
Kakade, musa ukusebenzisa amadoda njengenitshala. Kodwa ukuvumela ukuba uzilinganise kunye ne-accessory eyongezelelweyo kwimbonakalo yabo ayimkelekanga.
23. Nabo abaphathi abathandekayo kufuneka bazivele umda wento evumelekileyo.
Ukufezekisa iminqweno yakho ngokusebenzisa "ukufa" okude kunye nobuhlungu. Kodwa musa ukuyiqhayisa!
24. Le kati ibonise wonke umntu oko kwenzekayo kwabo bangayixhasi umgaqo-nkqubo wokwazisa abafazi kwi-entrepreneurship and management.
Ngelishwa, akuzona zonke iinjongo eziphunyezwe ngotshani lwesandla. Okanye i paws.
25. Inguqulelo yintlukwano ebalulekileyo ekulinganeni kwezesondo. Lekati sele iqalile ukuqhuma kokuqala.
Wonke umntu unelungelo lokutshintsha ikhoyo kunye nekamva. Musa ukuchitha ixesha ngaphandle. Zama ukudala!
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