Umama ngamnye uzama ukwenza ikamelo lomntwana indawo ekhululekile, enhle kwaye ephephile endlwini. Ngokuhlonela ngakumbi aba bafazi abanentombi. Emva koko, kukho ithuba lokuqonda amaphupha abo ebuntwaneni, ukuhamba nomntwana omncinci ukuya kwiivenkile kunye nee-salons ekukhangela izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ngaphakathi. Inxalenye enkulu yokuqwalasela kule ngxaki inikezwa ngamakhethini kwi-nursery kwintombazana. Ukongezelela kwindwangu yayingokwemvelo kwaye ingenakuvutha umlilo, kukho iingcebiso ezininzi ezivumela ukusetyenziswa kwempahla yengubo yeefestile ukuguqula igumbi eliqhelekileyo kwi-castle-story or cinderella carriage.
Yintoni ekufuneka ibe yindlela yokukhetha umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa?
Ukuba igumbi ligcinwe kwintombazana esanda kuzalwa, ngoko kukhethwa kwamakhethini, umntu makangamathele kwezi ngcebiso ezilandelayo:
- Okukhethwa kukho kunikelwa kwiimbophu zokukhanya ezibonakalayo eziza kuvumelana nazo zonke iingubo ezikulo gumbi: isihlalo sikamama, ukhuseleko kwibala okanye kwindawo;
- Amakhethini makwenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo, kodwa kufuneka uqonde ukuba iimveliso ezinjalo zifuna ukunyamekela;
- ukwenzela ukudala iimeko eziyimfuneko zokulala nokuvuswa komntwana, kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela ukuthengwa kwezimfama zamaRoma okanye ezigubungelayo, ezilawula lula ukukhanya kwelanga.
Ukulungiswa kwekharityhulam kwikamelo lezingane zasesikolweni
Kule minyaka, ukuba kungekudala, kuyimfuneko ukuphulaphula izimvo kunye neenqweno zentombazana, ngakumbi xa kuziwa kwindawo yakhe. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ofunda esikolweni ungumqhubi wefilimu ephakanyisiweyo okanye uhambela izilwanyana kunye nezityalo zoluhlobo oluthile, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukhetha amakhethini kunye neempendulo ezifanelekileyo kunye. Iingcebiso eziphambili zokukhetha amakhethini ekamelweni lokulala lokufunda esikolweni zilandelayo:
- Umbala wamakhethini unokuba luhluke kakhulu, kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba imibala ye-asidi ingamcaphukisa umntwana, ngelixesha elimnyama livumeleke elangeni elincinci, kodwa ligcinwe kwiimbonakalo zesikrato kunye nemibono engaphandle. Musa kwakhona ukuhlala ngemibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye emhlophe;
- Ukukhethwa kwalomfanekiso kufanele kuqhathaniswe nesitayela sonke sendawo. Ingaba iintyatyambo, abantu abancinci, izilwanyana, amaqabunga okanye ukuphelisa nje, kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ukuprinta kwakuthandayo umnikazi wegumbi lokulala kwaye kwakungekho nalyapistym. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuzalisa iilethini ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo, i-podhvaty kunye nezinye izinto ezihlobisa;
- Ukukhethwa kufuneka kunikelwe kwizixhobo zemvelo ezingabangela iziphumo ezinokuthi zingabutheli uthuli. I-Organza, i-taffeta kunye ne-analog yayo enekotoni yindlela ekhethekileyo.
Amakhontanga kubhinqa lentombazana yabantwana
Ngokuqhelekileyo kulo mntwana umntwana usenayo imbono yakhe siqu, leyo ayikho phantsi kwengxoxo kunye nokugxeka abantu abadala. Intombazana iyazi kakuhle into ayifunayo, kwaye abazali banokukunceda kuphela ukulungisa igumbi lakhe ngokuhambelana neemfuno. Ewe, akufuneki ukuba uqhubeke ngokuphathelele umntwana, jonga nje ukukhetha iifaneli. Ngokomzekelo, kubalulekile ukuba ungabandakanyi ikhethini kunye neepatheni zabantwana, ubeke endaweni yazo kunye ne-romzatic organza kunye ne-taffeta, okanye i-textile ye-beige enezinto ezikhethiweyo.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, kuyimfuneko ukudweba amakhethini kumntwana wentombazana yomntwana ukuyila, ucinge ngoluvo lwakhe, jonga ukulungelelanisa, ukuqwalasela iimfuno kunye namathuba. Oku kuya kunika ithuba lokufundisa iimvumba into entle kunye nokufaka ingqiqo yobuhle.
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