Umntu-Khansana othandweni uthembeke kakhulu, umlingani onobubele kunye nomdla. Uyayinyamekela kwaye uyanyamekela, ulungele izinto ezininzi ukukholisa intanda yakhe. Indoda enhle yentsapho, eneempawu eziyimfuneko ukudala intsapho eqinile.
Ukuba injongo kukukhawulela indoda enjalo, ingaba ngumngeni omkhulu. Yintoni ubunzima? Makhe siqwalasele oku nkcukacha.
Indlela yokutsala nokuyisa umntu-Cancer?
Indoda phantsi kwesi sibonakaliso se-Zodiac imangalisa kakhulu kwaye imangalisa. Ukuze aqalise ulwalamano kuyisinyathelo esinzulu. Uyakhetha okhethiweyo wakhe ixesha elide. Ngamanye amaxesha iminyaka ifuna ukufezeka kwangempela. Ukuze ukwazi ukunqoba intliziyo yesifo somntu, umdla wakhe unomdla kufuneka abe nempawu ezintle. Kulo ntombazana ukuba uya kuba nokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinile kunye nokuthembekileyo. Kubalulekile kuye ukuba uyathandwa ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye uyayiqonda into emfihlakeleyo.
Ungumntu oyedwa, ngoko akanakho isidingo sokuqala ubudlelwane kunye nabesifazane abaninzi. Umntu onjalo uya kuhlala enyanzelekile kwisiqingatha sakhe sesibini, ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu kuye ukuba kulungelelanisa.
Kwaye kummeli wesini esifanelekileyo, umntu-I-Cancer ixabisa ubuchule bokutya, ukuchaneka nokucoceka. Ngomfazi wakhe, uya kukhetha umgcini wekhaya, oya kukwazi ukugcina induduzo yasekhaya nokudala uhlobo oluthile lomlingo noxolo, umlindele emsebenzini wakhe ngesidlo sakusihlwa esimnandi. Ulungele ukuthanda lo mfazi ngentliziyo yakhe yonke kwaye ukulungele nantoni ngenxa yakhe.
Ndingayithanda njani inqwelwe yindoda?
Ukucinga ngendlela yokwahlula ngendoda yesifo, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba umlingani wakhe awunakulinganiswa, maxa wambi kunzima ukuqonda umntu onjalo. Akayena omnye walabo bantu abakulungele ukuvula umphefumlo wabo kumntu wokuqala abadibana naye. Ngokuqhelekileyo nabahlobo abasondeleyo abazi kakhulu ngaye.
Okokuqala, uya kukhangela umfazi onokumthemba aze avule. Uxabisa kakhulu iimpawu ezinjengokuthenjwa, ukunyaniseka nothando kubantwana.
Kulo mntu udibanise iimpawu ezahlukahlukeneyo zomlingani, ngamanye amaxesha zichasene. Uvakalelwa kakhulu kwaye ukhawuleze. Iyakubilisa ngaphezu kwesinye isithintelo, sibe nobuqili kwaye unzima, kwaye emva kwexesha elifutshane, njengokungathi akukho nto iyenzekayo, ibuye ibe yinyameko kwaye ithandeke. Ngaloo ndoda nje musa ukukhathazeka.
Ngenxa yobuthakathaka bakhe, indoda ethandana neCarcer ayiyi kuthetha ngovelwano lwayo de ibe ivakalelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kumntu okhethiweyo. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, isimo sakhe sinokubonakala kwihambo yakhe.
Uba nomona ongenangqondo kwaye akayikulawula le ntliziyo. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba yena ngokwakhe akayi kubangela umona . Ngaphezu koko, ukuba uya kuba kunye namantombazana, ngoko uya kubakho kude nabo.
Ungumninimzi kwaye uzama nzima kunokwenzeka ukubopha umfazi wakhe oyintanda kuye.
Unomdlavuza kwiNtshontsho
Ekubhedeni, umdlavuza wesilisa ukhetha ukuthuthuzelwa nokulula. Kuye kubalulekile kuye
Kuye, into eninzi ayithethi nje inkqubo yokwenza umzimba ngokwawo, kodwa isithintelo sengqondo. Ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kwembopheleleko akuyena kuye. Ukuze akwazi ukuzityhila ngokuzeleyo kwisigaba esithandana naye, kufuneka aqale akhe ukwakha oluqinileyo noluthembayo. Ummeli wesondo oqinileyo uhlala evakalelwa ngokunyanisekileyo oko iqabane lakhe lifuna kwaye lizama ukumnika umdlalo.