Namhlanje, kulwaziwa ngaphezu kwamanqaku ambalwa eemviwo, okuza kuba luncedo olukhulu kunomsebenzi kungekhona kuphela kootitshala, kodwa nabazali. Phakathi kweemvavanyo ezinomdla kunabantwana abaselula, sichaza oku kulandelayo:
- uvavanyo lokumisela ubuntu bengqondo;
- vavanyo;
- vavanyo "Umtshina wokuxoka";
- vavanyo u-Eysenck ukuchonga uhlobo lwemoya;
- vavanya u kuhlola;
- ukuvavanya ukucacisa ubuchule;
- ukuvavanya kwinqanaba lokuxinwa kunye nenkumbulo;
- iimvavanyo ukuchonga ukuziphatha okungahambiyo kwabaselula.
Uvavanyo lwe "Scale of Aggression"
Mema umfundi wesikolo esiphakamileyo ukuba aphendule ngokunyanisekileyo nokuba ucinga ukuba ezi zilandelayo zithethi ngaye:
- Andikwazi ukuthula xa kukho nto idala ukunganeliseki.
- Kunzima kum ukuphikisa.
- Ndiba nomsindo xa kubonakala ngathi umntu uhleka ngam.
- Ndiqala ngokukhawuleza ukuxabana, ndiyakwazi ukubuyisela ngokwenene ummoni.
- Ndiqinisekile ukuba ndinokwenza umsebenzi olungcono kunontanga.
- Ngamanye amaxesha ndifuna ukwenza into embi ephazamisa abantu bam.
- Ndiyathanda ukuncwina izilwanyana.
- Kwenzeka ukuba ndifuna ukufunga ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle.
- Ukuba abantu abadala banditsho ukuba ndiyenze ntoni, ndifuna ukwenza okuchaseneyo.
- Ndizibona ndizimeleyo ndizimisele.
Ngoku kuyimfuneko ukuvavanya iziphumo zolu vavanyo ngenxa yobundlobongela abaselula. Impendulo nganye efanelekileyo yinto enye. Iingongoma ezi-1-4 zibonisa ubundlobongela obuphantsi komntwana, amaphuzu angama-4-8-isalathisi sogonyamelo oluqhelekileyo, kunye neenqaku ezingu-8-10-uphawu lwe-alamu kubazali nootitshala, obonisa izinga eliphezulu lobugwenxa.
Uvavanyo loxinzelelo
Kwiingxelo zolu vavanyo, umfana kufuneka anike esinye sezimpendulo ezintathu: "Hayi" (kuqikelelwe kumaphuzu angu-0), "Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo" (uqikelelwe kumaphuzu amathathu) kwaye "Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha" (kuqikelelwa kwinqanaba eli-1). Le khweshine yenzelwe ukuchonga ukuba umntwana uyacaphukisa:
- Iphunga elimnandi leqhumiso?
- Umhlobo okanye umfundi ofunda naye kufuneka alinde nini ixesha?
- Ukuba umntu uhlala ehleka ngaphandle kwesizathu?
- Ukuba ngaba abazali okanye ootitshala bahlala befundisa?
- Ingxoxo ephakamileyo kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke?
- Abantu baqhayisa xa bethetha?
- Xa undipha izinto ezingathandekiyo kunye nezinto ezingadingekile?
- Ndixelela nini ibali le ncwadi endifuna ukuyifunda?
- Ukuba kwi-cinema phambi kwam umntu ujika kwaye athetha?
- Ukuba umntu ubetha ekhonkwane zam?
Iziphumo zolu vavanyo ukuxhatshazwa kwengcinezelo kubantwana abancinci zifana nale: iingu-26-30 iingongoma - umntwana useburhulumenteni obunzima, amanqaku angama-15-26 - uyacaphukiswa kuphela ngezinto ezingathandekiyo, kwaye i-trivia yekhaya ayinakukwazi ukumthabatha, angaphantsi kwama-15 amanqaku ukuzola kunye nokukhuselwa ekuxinekeni.
Uvavanyo lokukhathazeka kwabaselula
Umntwana uya kudingeka ukuba ahlole ukuba ngaba nayiphi na ingxelo kwizinga elilandelayo lifanele: "Phantse njalo" (ivalwe kuma-4 amanqaku), "Ngamaxesha amaninzi" (eqikelelwe kumanqaku amathathu), "ngamanye amaxesha" (unika amanqaku amabini) kwaye "Ungaze" (unikeza inqaku eli-1). Lemibuzo ngokwayo ibonakala ngathi:
- Kubonakala kum ukuba ndingumntu onobuchule.
- Isixhaswa ngumbuso wam oqhelekileyo.
- Ndidla ukuba ndive nexhala.
- Ndingathanda ukuvuyisa njengabanye.
- Ndiziva ngathi ndingaphumeleli.
Xa ndicinga ngemicimbi yam nemicimbi yemihla ngemihla, ndiziva ndingonwabi. - Ndihlala ndigxininisekile, ndizolile kunye negazi elibandayo.
- Ukuzithemba yinto endinayo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ndifumana uxinzelelo.
- Ixesha elizayo ndiloyikisayo.
Umphumo wama-30 ukuya kuma-40 amanqaku ubonisa ukuba uxhalaba luye lwaba ngumlingane ohlala rhoqo kumntwana, ukusuka kwi-15 kuya kuma-30 amanqaku-umntwana osemva ufumana amaxhala, kodwa oku akuchaphazeli i-psyche, ngaphantsi kwama-15 amaphuzu-umfundi akaqhelekanga ukukhathazeka ngokubanzi.