Amawele ayingumqondiso woMoya, oko kuthetha ukuba abantu abazalelwa kulo mqondiso banomlingani ongenakuqikelela, bathambekele ekuhambeni, batshintshe indawo kunye neentlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo.
Amadoda azalwe ngaphantsi komqondiso weGemini, anesimo esibuhlungu, njengamahambo ahlukahlukeneyo, ukuhamba kunye nokuhamba nje. Baphuthuma ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba lomsebenzi kwaye bafumane abahlobo abafunekayo ngokukhawuleza.
Indlela yokubuyisela umntu-Gemini emva kokuhlukana?
Ukuba umfazi ukhathazekile ngendlela yokubuyisela indawo yeGemini yindoda, oko kuyimfuneko kuye, okokuqala, ukuba aziqonde yena kwaye enze isigqibo, ngokwenene ufuna ukuba nomntu onjalo naye. Emva koko, kufuneka aqonde ukuba xa ebuya, emva koko, emva kokuhlaziya, emva kokuhlaziywa kobudlelwane, indoda yaseGemini ingaphinda ibenze ubuqatha, ngenxa yokuba i-break break in relation.
Simele siqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba indoda kaGemini ayisoze yatshintsha, ukuba uya kuba njalo ngeli xesha, kodwa sifuna ukwazi enye yeemfihlelo zakhe ezincinci: uhlonipha umtshato osemthethweni kunye nentsapho yakhe ayiyona isandi esilula. Ngoko ke, ngexesha lolwalamano ngaphambi komtshato kunye nendoda-iGemini, kufuneka aqinisekise ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba umtshato uya kuba yinto ekhethekileyo kwaye nguye kuphela onokuyenza ibe mnandi ngakumbi.
Ukuba ukwahlula phakathi komfazi kunye nendoda yeGemini kubangelwe yimpazamo yomntu, ngoko kubuya kulula, kodwa kuya kuthatha ixesha elide. Omnye kufuneka alungiselele incoko ende kunye nomoya ofanelekileyo wokuhambisa ingcamango, okumele uyixhomeke kumntu oxolelwe, kwaye umfazi ulungele ukuqala
Indlela yokubuyisela inzala yeGemini yindoda?
Kwakhona, ukuba ibhinqa lifuna ukubuyisela indoda yaseGemini, ngokokuqala kwindawo ibalulekile ukuzithoba ngokufanelekileyo. Kusoloko ufuna ukubukeka kuhle kakhulu: zombini iinwele, ukwakheka , kunye nesambatho - yonke into kufuneka ikhethwe ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ibonakale intle. Kucebise ukutyumba iintlanganiso kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zothando kunye nokuzisa umnxibelelwano kwingxoxo efunwayo. Hlala uphulaphula ngokucophelela, kuba amawele athanda ukuthetha kwaye abone ukuba aphulaphule ngokunyanisekileyo.