Phantse nawuphi na umama, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, ubhekane nombuzo wokuba uhlakulele ukunyaniseka kumntwana, xa engakwazi ukuhlala kwindawo emihlanu imizuzu, akayi kuzisa ityala ekupheleni, ufumana izizathu eziliwaka zokungafezekisi umsebenzi onikwe wona. Oku akunakuchukumisa kodwa kubacaphukisa abazali. Kwaye ndifuna ukuba umntwana, aye esikolweni, afundisise kakuhle kwaye wayenandipha impumelelo yakhe. Kakade ke, kubalulekile ukuqala ukuphuhliswa kwe-assiduity kumntwana ukususela kumntwana.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa ukuhambela umntwana?
Ukufikelela kwiminyaka engama-6 inkqubo yemfundo yokubamba iqhaza kumntwana iququzelele kwimidlalo eyahlukeneyo eqhutywayo kunye noqhagamshelwano oluvelisayo kunye nabazali. Ngeli xesha, kufuneka uxoxe ngakumbi nomntwana, ufunde izibongo, uhlabelele iingoma, uhlalutye ngokubambisana kunye nokubeka izimvo kwimifanekiso kwiincwadi, ukufunda iifrifana, njl njl. Musa ukulukhulula umntwana, khetha imidlalo kunye nemisebenzi efanelekileyo kwinqanaba lokuphuhlisa kunye neminyaka. Musa ukuyalela okanye ukunyanzela imisebenzi eya kwenziwa malunga neemfuno zomntwana, unomdla kubo. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukwenza umsebenzi kakuhle kwaye ekupheleni. Qinisekisa ukuba udumise nangona uphumelelo oluncinci kwaye uzama ukugxeka ngaphantsi.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokuhlakulela ukunyamezela kumntwana:
- Unamathela kwisimo esiqinileyo semini, ngaloo ndlela ulungele umntwana ukuba aqonde oko "kuyimfuneko".
- Iimidlalo ezisebenzayo ngakumbi emoyeni ovulekile. Nika umntwana ithuba lokukhupha amandla akhe: ininzi ye-napegatsya, gxuma kwaye ukhwaza. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuhamba kwimeko, tyelela iipaki, izenzo ezahlukeneyo zedolophu.
- Imidlalo yokunikezela kunye nokunyuka kweemfuno zokugxininisa nokunyamezela kumntwana (abayilayi, imichilo, imodeli, iipuzzle, iipuzzle, njl.) Ukuphula imisebenzi enzima kwiindawo, ukunika imiyalelo emfutshane neqondakalayo yokuphunyezwa kwayo. Hlaziya, yintoni eyandise umdla womntwana wakho, khuthaza isinyathelo sakhe kwaye uqhubele phambili kulolu hlobo.
- Qiniseka ukuba unciphisa ixesha elichithwe kwiTV kunye nekhompyutheni, ukunikela ngokubuyisela ngakumbi imisebenzi enomdla kunye neminomdla.
- Ngokuvakalelwa kwengqondo yomntwana, ukuzithobela ukuphucula kuya kunceda.
- Khuthaza umntwana ukuba ahlambulule igumbi, abeke amathoyizi kwindawo. Ukuvuselela ukuqeqeshwa.
Ukuthungelwa komsebenzi womntwana ngumsebenzi onzima kunzima. Emva koko, umntwana kuqala kuqala uthatha umzekelo kuthi, abazali. Bonisa ukucinga kwakho, umonde nokuqonda-kwaye uya kuphumelela.