Ngokuqhelekileyo ngamaphupha kukho abantu abaye bafa. Iziqendu zemibono enokuthi zihluke ngokupheleleyo. Abantu abaninzi emhlabeni jikelele banomdla wokuba kutheni iindwendwe ezifayo ziphuphayo, nokuba ngaba kufanelekile ukuloyika loo maphupha. Ukulahlekelwa ngabantu abathandekayo kuhlala kuyintlungu ebangela amava amaninzi, uxinzelelo kwaye iholele ekudakaleni. Uninzi ulangazelela ixesha elide kwaye ungavumeli ukuba imeko ihambe. Yingakho izazinzulu zithetha ukuba amaphupha ohlobo lwabafileyo abonakale ngenxa yokuba netyala, umzekelo, abanye bakholelwa ukuba abanalo ixesha lokuthetha into ethile, yenza okanye uxolise. Kulo rhulumente, ingqondo engenazicwangciso izama ukunceda kuzo zonke iindlela, kwaye ngoko idala amaphupha malunga nezihlobo ezifile. Oku kuya kwenzeka ade umntu axolelane kwaye akayi kuyingxenye kunye neenkumbulo.
Kutheni iindwendwe ezifile ziphupha?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha afana nesilumkiso esicacileyo. Ukuba ubaba oshonile ubonakala ephupheni, oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kusondele umntu ukuba aqaphele, ekubeni ityala iqaliwe kungekudala lingaba yingozi. Isitoliki sephupha sincoma ukuba ucinge ngokucokisekileyo yonke into, njengoko yonke into ingagqiba ingxaki. Siza kuqonda ukuba kutheni abazali abafayo bephuphayo, oko kukuthi, unina. Iphupha elinjalo lisoloko lithetha kwangaphambili ukuvela kweengxaki zempilo. Kuyafaneleka ukuvavanya ukukhusela iingxaki ezinkulu. Umbono ebusuku, apho umzalwana oswelekileyo ebonakala khona, ubonisa ukuba umntu osondeleyo ufuna ukuxhaswa kunye nokuncedwa.
Ukuba ngaba amaqabane afile ahlala ephupha, oku kunjalo