Umbhali u-Elizabeth Gilbert wamvuma uthando lwakhe ngomfazi

Mhlawumbi wonke umntu ukhumbula i-melodrama ethi "Yidla, Thandaza, Uthando," apho inkwenkwezi yefilimu uJulia Roberts yadlala indima ephambili. Umbhalo walo mdwebo wabhalwa ngesiseko se-Elizabethseller bestseller "Yithandaza, thanda," apho umbhali wachaza ubomi bakhe emva kokuqhawula umyeni wakhe wokuqala.

Ukuqaphela okungalindelekanga kwe-Elizabeth

Umlobi waseMelika wase-American oneminyaka engama-47 wayengakaze abonakale ebudlelwaneni nabasetyhini ngaphambili. Wayeneminyaka engama-2 etshatile, ngoko ukuvuma ngokucacileyo kwemizwa ngomhlobo wakhe omhle uRaya Elias, owenziwe kutshanje, wabangela ukutshitshiswa kubalandeli bakhe.

Ekuseni ngoSeptemba 7, kwiphepha lakhe le-Facebook, uElizabethe washicilela umfanekiso kaEliya, wasayinela ngala mazwi:

"Mina kunye noRaya sihlangene ngoku. Siyamthandana kwaye siyavuya kakhulu ngale nto. "

Emva koko unokufunda ibali lokuba uElizabethe noRaya bangabangani ixesha elide. Kuba uGilbert Elias uye wasoloko ekho "umzekelo oyintloko" weencwadi zakhe, kunye nomntu onokumthembayo naliphi na ixesha. Emva kokuba uRai afunyanwe nomhlaza we-pancreatic kunye nomdlavuza wesibindi, uElizabethe waxelisa ubuhlobo babo, eqonda ukuba wayemthanda umngane wakhe. Ukongeza, umyalezo wombhali unokufumana ezi ndlela:

"Awukwazi ukuba kwenzekani engqondweni nasentliziyweni yam xa ndakuva le ngxaki. Yonke iminyaka esazana ngayo, umzuzwana ushukunywe ngam amehlo. Ndabona ukuba andinayo ixesha lokuba ndizenza ngathi. Yonke into yawela, ndaqonda ukuba andithandi nje u-Raya njengomhlobo, kodwa ndiyamthanda kakhulu. Ukufa okanye imbono yayo izisa inyaniso kwimphambili, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni. Andiyazi ukuba uluntu luya kuqonda njani ezi ndaba, kodwa inyaniso endiyithethayo inceda ndinyule ubudlelwane kunye nentanda yam kwaye ndihlala ngakumbi kwilizwe elibonakalayo nelingenakuqonda. "
Funda kwakhona

U-Elizabethe washiya indoda yakhe ngenxa yomhlobo

Umbhali odumileyo uGilbert wazalwa ngo-1969 e-USA. Waqala ukutshata ngo-1994 kuMichael Cooper, kodwa ngo-2002 isibini esabhengeza ukutshatyalaliswa kwabo. Emva koko, uElizabeth wahamba waya eBhali, apho kwakufuneka ahlolisise ubuhlobo kunye nomyeni wangaphambili kwaye abuye abuye emva kokuqhawula umtshato. Kulo hambo, uGilbert wadibana nendoda yakhe yesibili, uJose Nunez. Yayiveli yabo kuzo zonke iinkcukacha zayo ezichazwe kwingxenye yesithathu yencwadi ethi "Thandaza, thanda." I-Elizabeth eyona nto ihamba phambili yanyatheliswa ngo-2006 ngokupapashwa kwamaxwebhu angaphezu kwezigidi ezili-10, kwaye emva koko uGilbert watshata uNunez. NgoJuni 2016, umbhali wamemezela ukuba wayemshiya uJosé, kodwa isizathu sokuba ukwahlukana kwakufihlile kude kube namhlanje. Njengoko kwacaca, umtshato wesibini u-Elizabethe wahlukana ngenxa yothando lwakhe kumhlobo wakhe osondeleyo uRaya Elias.