Ibali lothando lwabesifazane ababengenangqondo kunye nabanamakhono abanomphela, umbhali wencwadana eyaziwayo neyihlolwe "Yidla, Thandaza, Uthando" u-Elizabeth Gilbert wabika ukufa komculi wakhe othandekayo nomlawuli uRaya Elias, owayeneminyaka engama-57 kuphela ubudala. U-Elias wahlushwa ixesha elide kumdlavuza wepascreas kunye nesibindi, edlula emva kokunyanga, kodwa ngelishwa, umculi wayengenakuyithintela eso sifo. NgoSeptemba 2016, umbhali wagqiba ubudlelwane obundlobongela kunye nokuphelisa umtshato weminyaka elisithoba kunye nomyeni wakhe aze avume ngokusemthethweni ukuba angenasisiseko sokuziphatha ngokwesondo.
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Elizabeth Gilbert noRaya Elias
U-Elizabethe wanikela uRaya Elias amagama okugqibela okuwamkela kwaye awapapasha kwiinkonzo zentlalo:
"Wayenentsingiselo yobomi bam, umkhululi wam, umcebisi kunye nomhlobo, isithunywa sam kunye nedemon, umvukeli wam nomvukeli, i-wizard kunye neyam yolondolozo, isipho sam ebomini kunye nenxalenye yentliziyo yam ... Ndiyakuthanda kakhulu kwaye ndikubulela yonke imihla ohlala nayo. Esi sisipho esiphambili kum. Ndifuna ukuthetha ... bhala ... "Phumla ngoxolo," kodwa awuzange uthande uxolo, ucinga ukuba uyamkhathaza. Ufuna ukuhlala, ujonge. Ndiya kuhlala ndiyakuthanda! "U
Ngokuphathelele ukuxilongwa komculi kwaziwa ngo-2016, uGilbert wachaza ngexesha elifanelekileyo ezi ndaba ezimbi:
"Kwamangalisa. Andiyazi indlela yokuchaza oko kwenzekayo xa ukuxilongwa kukaRai kwaziwa. Zonke ezizungezile zibonakala zihluke ngokupheleleyo, ngokukhawuleza kubonakala kubalulekile, okwenyaniso kwaye akubalulekanga. Ukufa kukuvusa ukuba usuke ebuthongweni kwaye uqale ukuxabisa ubomi kunye nabantu abasondelene nawe. Kwakuloo nto ke ekugqibeleni ndaqonda ukuba ndidiniwe ukuxoka nokunyanzela iimvakalelo zam ngeRaya. Ndiyamthanda kwaye oku kwaba yintsingiselo yobomi kum. Kungenxa yoko, asizange sifihle ubuhlobo bethu, kodwa satsho ngokucacileyo malunga neemvakalelo kunye neentsapho nezihlobo. Inyaniso kunye nokuvuleka kwasenza savuyela ubudlelwane, kungekhona ukwesaba ukuvakaliswa nokungaqondi. "
- Umbhali u-Elizabeth Gilbert wamvuma uthando lwakhe ngomfazi
- UWilliam Hamilton uhlangana noSofia Ritchie
- U-Irina Sheik noBradley Cooper baqalisa umhla kuMalibu
Khumbula ukuba u-Elizabeth Gilbert waziwa ngokuba ngumxholo wesikrini wencwadana yakhe ethi "Yidla, Thandaza, Uthando," apho indima ephambili idlala uJulia Roberts. Incwadi ngokubanzi i-autobiographical kwaye ixelela ngomendo onzima wokubuyiselwa emva komtshato wokuqala, uthando olutsha ngoJoseph Nunez, lowo umbhali wadibana noBali kunye nolwalamano lwabo. Enyanisweni, isibini esitshatileyo kuphela, kodwa kunye neminyaka esithoba, sasizibandakanya ekulawuleni nasekuphuhlisweni kwezinto zaseAsia ezithengiswayo iimpahla ezimbini.