Kukho imeko xa umntu efuna ukukhumbuza ngaye ngokungachanekanga. Ukwenza oku, unokuphupha omnye umntu ephupheni. Nangona kungelula ukwenza, kusenokwenzeka. Abavumbuli beenkwenkwezi kunye nezikhokelo, abaziyo ukuphupha komnye umntu ephupheni, bakholelwa ukuba yindlela elula yokumamela lo mntu unokulawula amaphupha abo.
Ngaba ndinokuphupha ngomnye umntu?
Ukuphupha omnye umntu, udinga umnqweno omkhulu nolwazi lwemigaqo ethile. Ukongezelela, ngomzuzwana xa umntu ethunyelwe ubuthongo obuyimfuneko, kufuneka alele, mhlawumbi akayi kukwazi ukufumana umyalezo othunyelwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha iphupha lidluliselwa kuphela emva kwemizamo emininzi. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ube nesigulane kwaye ulandele ngokucophelela zonke iingcebiso kule ngxaki.
Indlela yokuphupha komnye umntu ekude?
Zininzi iindlela zokuphupha komnye umntu:
- Ukubona iphupha malunga nale ndoda . Kukho ingqungquthela abantu ababonana ngayo ephupheni ngokufanayo. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba ulale, kufuneka ucinge ngomntu ofuna ukumphupha, jonga umfanekiso wakhe, khumbula iimeko ezahlukeneyo kuye. Ukuba unako ukubona umntu ofanelekileyo ephupheni, kukho ithuba elikhulu lokuba uya kubona kwakhona iphupha ngokuthatha inxaxheba yakho.
- Ukusebenzisana nomntu ephupheni . Ukuba unako ukulawula amaphupha, ngoko kuphupha kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisana nomntu oyifunayo: gubungela isandla, uthethe naye, wenze okuthile naye.
- Ngokwenene ube yithunzi lomntu . Ngaphambi kokuba ulale, cinga ukuba i-addressee yakho yenza into kwaye uzame ukuyikopisha ngengqondo. Yenza lo mzuzu imizuzu embalwa. Emva koko, kufuneka ulale ngokucinga ukuba uya kudibana nomntu ofanelekileyo ephupheni.
- Privorot ukunceda
phupha komnye umntu . Kwi- apula encinci , kufuneka wenze inotshi okanye ukuchaneka uze ufake ifoto yomntu okanye nephepha elithile apho igama lakhe libhalwa khona. Emva koko, i-apula ifakwa kwifestile. Xa i-apple iyancipha, ngakumbi umntu uya kukucinga kwaye akubone ephupheni.
Ekugqibeleni kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ukuba ukuphupha umntu kuyingxenye yento. Impumelelo yokugqibela yeso sixhomekeke ekubeni umntu ukhumbula njani amaphupha akhe. Abanye abantu balele ngokukhawuleza kangangokuthi abazikhumbuli amaphupha abo. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka ukuba usebenze kanzima ukuze ngolunye usuku umninimzi awakhumbule ukuba ngubani na obonwayo ephupheni.