Ukudala, umfanekiso wakhe kunye nesimboli, nganye intombazana izama ukuqwalasela zonke izinto zayo. Ngoko sinokuchitha iiyure kwindawo yokuzivocavoca ezama ukufezekisa umfanekiso ohambelanayo, landela iimveli zentambo, ukuhlala kunye namaxesha, sihlala si tyelela umnwele kunye ne-beautician, ukwenzela ukuba ulusu lwethu neenwele zibukeka ziphilile kwaye zilungele kakuhle. Yonke le migudu ifana neyobuhle besondo, kwaye ihlanganiswe kwintliziyo yabesifazane ngokwemvelo ngokwayo. Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuba ukubonakala akuhlali kudlala indima ebalulekileyo. Nokuba intombi enhle kunazo zonke kunye neyinkwenkwezi ingakwazi ukuvelisa indlela engcono ngayo yokuziphatha okubi. Makhe sithethe ngemithetho evunyelwe ngokubanzi kunye nemithetho engafanelekanga yokuziphatha kakuhle.
Kutheni kulungile?
Akunakwenzeka ukungayinaki into yokuba siphila kuluntu, kwaye nantoni na ayithethayo ngenkululeko yokuthetha, imigaqo kunye nemingcele ikhona, kwaye isebenza kuwo wonke umntu ngaphandle kokunye. Ngokunjalo, ukugcinwa kwemimiselo eyamkelekileyo kunye nemilinganiselo yokuziphatha ifom yekcubeko lomntu. Nantsi imimiselo yeendlela ezilungileyo kubasetyhini yonke imihla:
- Umgaqo oqaqambileyo intombazana enemilinganiselo efanelekileyo kukugcina ukutya. Ubomi bemihla ngemihla, kukho iziganeko apho ubuchule bakho buza kugwetywa ngokufanelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, kuya kuba neengcamango ezingekho ngcamango njengentombazana yenkcubeko, ukuba ungathethi ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungenaso ingxoxo eninzi kwifowuni kwiindawo zoluntu, kuquka ukuhamba; Musa ukuphazamisa umnxibelelwano, ungazenzeli ukuba yinkokheli ekutyelele, akuxwayise malunga nokukhawuleza.
- Ukumodareyitha okanye ukulawulwa kwe "golide yegolide" echaphazelekayo ekusebenzisaneni, ekudleni, ekutywala, kubonwa njengento ekhethekileyo yomntu ofundisiweyo.
- Ukuchaneka, okungekho nje ukubonakala, kubonisa imbeko.
- Ukungabikho komkhwa wokuhleba, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kubasetyhini, kodwa kuxabiseke kakhulu ngokuziphatha.
- Kwaye kucacile ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intombazana ikwazi ukugcina ingqiqo ngokuphathelele kumlingane wayo.
Kwaye akusiyo uluhlu olupheleleyo lwetoni elungileyo. Intombazana eyaziwayo lonke uluhlu lwezinto ezilungileyo kwaye uyisebenzise ekunxibelelaneni abayi kubuzwa ukuba kutheni kuyadingeka.
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