Indlela yokuwa ngothando ngamasekhondi angu-240, ukuphendula imibuzo engama-36 kuphela

Ewe, olu luvavanyo olufanayo uPenny noSheldon bahamba ngalo!

Umntu ofundeka kakhulu kwi-New Yorks Time ", uCarrie Bradshaw weentsuku zethu - uMaty Len Katron ngexesha lokubhala inqaku luthando olulandelayo" Ukuwa nothando nomntu, yenzani ngoku "unomdla kwindlela ekhethekileyo kaDkt. Arthur Aron, ugqirha weengqondo, owawuneminyaka engama-20 edlulileyo. Emva koko isosayensi, oye wanikela umsebenzi wakhe ekufundeni ubuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kwababini abangaziwayo, wabonisa ukuba ukuba uthandane nomntu (mhlawumbi ungaqhelekanga) okanye ukuvusa imizwa ekhulile, ungaphendula imibuzo engama-36 kuphela, emva koko kufuneka ukhangele amehlo akho kwimizuzu emine!

Iziphumo ekuqaleni kokuhlolwa kwebhubhoratri zaphumelelekanga, kwaye zaya kubahlali. Ewe, yokuqala "yeengulube zeengulube", ngokukhawuleza ukudibana naloo mini, emva kweenyanga ezi-6 zamema abasebenzi bebhoratri kwi-wedding ceremony! Kwaye nangakumbi - iindaba ezimnandi zobubini bebinibini eziye zenziwa ngolu vavanyo oluqinileyo olubizwa ngokuthi "Ukutshatyalaliswa kokubambisana kukusondeza" kwakwanele ukubhala yonke incwadi! Njengoko uqikelele, u-Miss Katron akayiyo kuphela izizathu zomsebenzi wokuba abuyele ekugqibeleni ukuba le mibuzo ixabisekileyo - ubomi bakhe bobuqu buye buhlala ngendlela emangalisayo ...

Ewe, ulungele utshintsho oluhle? Bese ulungele ukuphendula amaqela amathathu emibandela, phakathi kokuya kuthi ungayeka, kwaye--ukulungisa iimbono zakho kungeku-3 okanye-5, kodwa impela imizuzu emine!

  1. Ungamema nawuphi na umntu emhlabeni ukuba adle nawe, ngoko ke uya kukhetha bani?
  2. Ngaba ufuna ukuba udumo? Ukuba kunjalo, kwintoni?
  3. Xa unenjongo yokwenza umnxeba umnxeba, uyapheqa kwintloko yakho malunga nento oza kuthetha ngayo?
  4. Ufanele uhambe njani umhla okanye umhla
  5. Ukhumbule ixesha lokugqibela uhlabe yedwa? Kwaye kwinkampani?
  6. Ukuba ngomhla wokuzalwa wama-30 ufunde ukuba uya kuhlala uphila iminyaka engama-90 ubudala, kodwa unokugcina ingqondo okanye umzimba kwiminyaka engama-60 ezayo, ngoko unokukhetha ntoni?
  7. Yaye enzulu entliziyweni yakho, ngaba ucinga ngendlela oya kushiya ngayo ubomi bakho?
  8. Ziziphi izinto ezintathu okanye iimpawu ezidibanisa kunye neqabane? (nakhona kunokwenzeka).
  9. Kuba oko, kwenzekani ebomini, ngaba unokuthetha amazwi angamakhulu okubulela?
  10. Ziziphi izilungiso ozenzileyo ekukhuliseni kwakho?
  11. Unemizuzu engama-240 kuphela, apho kufuneka uxele iqabane lakho malunga nobomi bakho kwiinkcukacha ezincinci. Ixesha liye ...
  12. Kuthekani kuthi nangomso wosuku olulandelayo ungakwazi ukuqonda ikhwalithi okanye ikhono elitsha? Ukhetha ntoni?
  13. Ngaphambi kokuba uyi-crystal ball ethembekileyo, engaphuthayo ekuqikeleleni ubomi besikhathi esizayo kwaye iya kuxela yonke inyaniso. Ulungele ukufumana?
  14. Yintoni oye waphupha ngayo ixesha elide? Ziziphi izizathu zokuba ungasifumananga namaphupha akho?
  15. Yaye yintoni impumelelo yakho yehlabathi ebomini?
  16. Ziziphi iimpawu zabahlobo ezixabisekileyo kuwe?
  17. Sixelele ngeemvakalelo ezivela entliziyweni?
  18. Kwaye ke yintoni na eyona nto imemori eyingozi kakhulu?
  19. Kuthekani ukuba ubomi bakho buphela kulo nyaka? Yintoni oyitshintsha kuyo ngoku kwaye kutheni?
  20. Yintoni ongayithetha ngobudlelwane?
  21. Uthando nothando - yintoni ebalulekileyo kuwe?
  22. Nika iqabane elinye utshintshiselwano kunye nolunye uluhlu lweempawu ezintle zabanye.
  23. Kwaye ubuntwaneni bakho bubonakala buvuyo ngakumbi kunabanye?
  24. Kwaye ungathini na ngobudlelwane bakho nomama wakho?
  25. Yenza ezintathu iingxelo eziqhelekileyo ezidibanisa kule mzuzwana, njengathi "Ngoku siziva ..."
  26. Yaye uncedisa njani ibinzana - "Ndiyaphupha lokuba nomntu endingayifumana ..."?
  27. Ukuba ukubambisana kubalulekile kuwe, kufuneka iqabane likwazi malunga nawe ...?
  28. Tshela iqabane malunga nento oyithandayo kuye, kodwa uthabathe amagama ongeke uthi kumfokazi.
  29. Yaye umzuzu onzima ungamxelela lakho iqabane?
  30. Iinyembezi ebusweni babanye kwaye zodwa - nini na uvakalelwa le mvakalelo ngexesha lokugqibela?
  31. Yaye uyintoni na ngoku malunga neqabane lakho ngoku?
  32. Yaye yintoni na ongeke ube yisisombululo samahlaya?
  33. Ukuba ubomi bakho buya kusihlwa, yintoni amagama abalulekileyo kwaye ungenayo ixesha lokuthetha?
  34. Ekhaya lakho umlilo, kodwa ukwazi ukugcina abathandekayo bakho kunye nezilwanyana. Ukulondoloza ntoni oya kukhawuleza ekugqibeleni kokugcina?
  35. Ukulahlekelwa yiphi ilungu lentsapho elikubangela ukuba ube nexhala elikhulu?
  36. Tshela iqabane lakho malunga neengxaki zakho uze ucele iingcebiso. Ngaba ufuna ukufumanisa oko acinga ngokubaluleka kwengxaki yakho?

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