Iminyaka eyi-12 ubudala ngumda wenguqu phakathi komntwana kunye nentombazana, ngoko akusiyo into yokuba abazali baneengxaki ngeengcamango zesipho kumantombazana ale minyaka. Kodwa eqinisweni, iimarike zanamhlanje zizele iimpahla ukuba isipho esilungileyo sinokufumaneka ngaphandle kokubunzima, kuyimfuneko nje ukuba uqonde okufutshane malunga noko umntanakho uya kuba nomdla kuyo.
Izipho zokuqala zamantombazana iminyaka eyi-12
Ukuba izinto zokwenza izinto kunye nobuhle bezinto ezinobungakanani bomntwana oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala kusekuqaleni, akuthethi ukuba umntwana makangayifaki imigaqo ekuzinyamekeleni yena, okuyiyo yinto enkcubeko kuyo yonke intokazi. Isiqhumiso sokukhanyisa iziqhumane, isethi yamatyu, i-foam kunye nemibhobho yokuhlamba, ikhefu elihle, isitya sokuhlambela esineqhekeza isitya se- gel kunye nekhilimu, isibini esicacileyo se-nail okanye i- lipstick kwimeko, njengomntu omdala, iya kunika intombazana zimeleyo kwaye zijwayele ukucoceka.
Isipho esifanelekileyo sentombazana eneminyaka eyi-12 iya kuba sisetyenziselwe ubuchule. Vumela umntwana aqale ukudweba, enze iigrafu ezimnandi, upheke ngokubhekiselele kwiindlela zokupheka ezilula, ukuthunga okanye ukudibanisa. Unokutsala umdla ekufundeni ngoncedo lomdlalo, xa uthengiswa ngokubanzi ungayifumana isethi yokuvelisa iikristali ezinemibala, ukwakha uvavanyo olusisiseko lomzimba kunye nolwabiloji, iiklasi zokufundisa ekubetheni izixhobo zomculo nokucula.
Isipho esona sikhulu kunazo zonke intombazana eneminyaka engama-12 yincwadi, kwaye nangona umntwana wakho engakangenanga nokuthanda ukufunda, le ncwadi inokuvuselela uthando lobuchule, ukuba ayilula, kodwa i-interactive. Kungekudala, incwadi ethi "Ndibhubhise" (isiNgesi "Sitshabalalisa eli phephancwadi"), eliyincwadana enemisebenzi emininzi yokwakha, yathengiswa. Kwakudingeka upende iincwadi kunye nemveliso, gcolela kumacandelo ezinto ezikusetafile, uziphose ekuphakameni, uze uhambe egcekeni? Hayi? Kaloku ke, unike ithuba lokukhohlisa malunga nomntwana wakho, ngakumbi ekubeni ungadlala neencwadi kungekhona yodwa, kodwa kunye nabahlobo.