Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba amaphupha endalo ekhuselekileyo ibonisa nje ukuba unomnqweno wangaphakathi wokufumana ingqalelo kumalungu esini esahlukileyo. Ababhali beencwadi ezininzi zephupha bajonga ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukutolika kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula kangako iinkcukacha ezinokwenzeka.
Kutheni sifuna ukuthanda?
Ukuba kwakufuneka wenze uthando kwindawo kawonkewonke - yinto ebalulekileyo yokulimala kunye neengxaki. Kubantu abalamano olufana nephupha lithembisa ukuba bahlukane nomthandayo. Ukwenza uthando nomyeni okanye umfana uthetha ukuba ulindele iingxaki ebuhlotsheni, oko kungabangela ukuhlukana. Iphupha apho kuthandana khona uthando kunye nomlingani wesini nesinye, kubonisa ukuba umntu ophupha udla ngokugqithiseleyo yonke into ebomini bakhe. Ubundlobongela obumnyama buyingqungquthela yokuthandana ngobomi bokwenene nokufumana ulwazi olubalulekileyo. Ukwenza uthando nomntu ongeyena mntu ungumqondiso wokunganeliseki ebomini obusondeleyo ngokwenene. Iphupha lokwabelana ngesondo kunye nomntu owayengumthandi okanye umyeni ubonisa ubukho bexinzelelo okanye luyintambo yomhlangano ongalindelekanga. Ukubukela indlela abanye abantu abenza ngayo uthando, ke lowo uphuphayo unesidima esincinane.
Kutheni ufuna ukukhumbula uthando?
Amaphupha anjalo abakhokhelo bokufumana isilingo esilinga kunye nethuba lokuvula. Kukho uluvo lokuba ukwenza uthando ngesithandana kukuxubusha lomtshato ngokubala. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nomntakwabo okanye uyise kuyisimboli sokuthandana nomoya okanye ezi zalwane zihlala zisicinezela ebomini bokwenene.
Amaphi amaphupha aphuphayo ngothando?
Ngokuphathelele utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakhe bomntu uya kubonwa ngamaphupha ngokumanga, iingcango kunye nentwasahlobo. Abadala bezothando zizilwanyana, umzekelo, ingonyama ithembisa intsha entsha , kunye nehlengethwa ngumtshato oqinileyo. Malunga nomtshato utshela i-packer yeempisi.