Kuyamangalisa ukuzalwa kwintsapho enkulu, epheleleyo kunye nobungane. Kuphela phakathi kweentsapho ozizwa uluthando lokwenene nokunyamekela, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uqaphela ukuhambelana kunye nenkxaso yokuziphatha.
Kodwa nazo zonke iziganeko ezilungileyo zentsapho enkulu, ngaba abantwana abajongene nezimo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezinzima ukuchazela. Bakwazi ukuziva kwaye bazibonela wena. Ukuba uphupha intsapho enkulu kunye nabazalwana kunye noodade abaninzi, ngokokuqala kuqala nifunde into enokujamelana nayo, nokuba uyayifunayo okanye ayikho!
1. Awusoze waba nexesha leenjongo zakho kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa, ukuba bonke abazalwana okanye oodade bakho bahlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo.
Uxolo, kodwa yintoni isikhala somntu siqu?
2. Kwikhaya labazali bakho, umgaqo uya kuhlala ulawulo: "Ukuba ubungenaso ixesha lokutya ukutya ngemizuzu emihlanu, ulambile nonke."
Ndakhula noMonica, ukuba awudli ngokukhawuleza, ngoko awuzange uyidle!
Ngelishwa, ithuba lokunciphisa iindawo ezidliwayo zokutya kwintsapho enkulu ayikho enkulu. Ngenxa yokuba akukho ntsalela!
3. Hayi, ungalibali malunga nokulindela ukulinda ngonaphakade ixesha lakho lokugezela!
4. Kwintsapho enkulu, uya kufunda ukuba "ukukhanda" kukutya.
Ewe, ukufihla iziganeko eziya kuthi uya kuziqhelanisa. Ukuba, ngokwenene, ufuna ukuba nexesha lokuzama!
5. Iifayili kwifriji "iya kuhamba" ngokukhawuleza. Ngeke ube nexesha lokujonga kwifriji.
Ngoko ke, landela iingcebiso zangaphambili uze uzifihle ukutya.
6. Ukuzonwabisa okulungileyo kunokuba uya kuhlamba izitya. Uyakuzonda ngenene le nto.
Nangona ngokusemgangathweni, nayiphi na into ayithandi ukuhlamba izitya ezininzi. Nangona unesitya sokuhlambalaza, kufuneka ulayishe amaxesha amathathu ngosuku ngemibhobho embalwa, ama-mugs kunye nezinye izinto zokusika.
7. Umxholo weengubo kwintsapho enkulu ngokubanzi kulula ukuyixazulula: abatsha banxiba abadala. Nangona phantsi kweemeko zobukhulu ezahlukeneyo zeengubo.
Ngaba kwenzeka ukuba ungabi nanye impahla, okanye ugqoke kuphela kwisebe kubantwana!
Ngoko ke, unakho ukulibala malunga nemifashiselo yefashini kunye neendaba zoshishino lwezombatho.
8. Awusoze ufikelele kwimoto enye.
Kwaye okubi kakhulu, ukuba ufanele ugibele ngamadolo oodade oseleyo okanye umzalwana.
9. Nabanye abayikubiza ngokuba ngamagama, kodwa "njengomntakwabo omncinci onjalo." Kwaye kuyacaphukisa.
Akulona igama lam!
10. Intloko yakho iya kuba yintengiso enkulu yokugcina ulwazi, kuba uya kufuneka ukuba wazi zonke i-ins kunye nokuphuma kwabazalwana noodade bakho.
Andiyazi impendulo yalo mbuzo!
Kodwa ngokusemthethweni kumbuzo othi "Nini na usuku lokuzalwa loodade wakho (okanye umzalwana)?" Unokuphendula ukuba ngeenjongo ezinjalo kunxibelelwano loluntu.
11. Ekuhambeni kwabo bonke abanye abantu uya kuba yinto ebalulekileyo kwaye uyotyalela ingqalelo.
Oku kuphephekiyo. Kwaye awukwazi ukuyitshintsha.
12. Xa intsapho yakho ifuna ukudibana nabahlobo bakho okanye isiqingatha, i-motto yakho yokuphila iya kuba: "Ndizenza ngathi ziqhelekile."
Ulolu hlobo olunjalo
Ndiyavuma, kunzima ukuchazela umfokazi oyintlanzi intsapho.
13. Kuyo yonke indawo umbuzo omnye uza kulandelwa kubo bonke abakuzungezile abangenakho ukukholelwa ngokupheleleyo kwinani labazalwana bakho noodadewabo.
Kwaye, ke, baya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba intsapho yakho ingumBhaptizi.
14. Njalo ngeeholide, uya kukhwela ubuchopho bakho malunga nokokuthengayo njengesipho kuzo zonke izalamane zakho xa kukho ukungabikho kwemali eyingozi.
Ngokukodwa, iimeko ziya kubonakala ngathi ibhunga leentsapho ligqiba ukuba ngubani ofuna iphoso. Kwaye, nanko, kufuneka uthenge!
15. Abahlobo bakho bahlala beqhayisa ukuba banokuluhlula amagama abo bonke abazalwana noodade bakho ekuhlaleni.
Andiyikratshi. Ewe, ukuba nje ncinane nje.
Ukuze ndikuxelele inyaniso, wena ngokwakho uya kutshatyalaliswa "ngamacandelo" anjalo kubangani bakho.
16. Amalinge okwenza ifoto yesapho iza kuphumelela. Kwaye iinzame ezinjalo ziya kuba kakhulu!
Kungenxa yokuba umntu uya kukhwankqisa okanye aphumelelise esithombeni.
17. Ukuba awufumani umfanekiso wesapho ohloniphekileyo, ngoko awukwazi ukuyifaka kwinethiwekhi yentlalo.
Ngoko umntu uya kunqunyulwa kwisithombeni!