Unxibelelwano olungokomoya olungenakulinganiswa kwezizukulwana, imfuyo okanye imemori yegazi yizinto izinto ezisemthethweni zesayensi. Ukuxhomekeka, ivumela ukuba ikhona, kodwa izazinzulu azikwazi ukuxhasa le ngqungquthela ngobungqina obunzulu.
Ukuvela kweengcamango ezifanayo malunga nobuhlobo obunamandla obuqhubekayo phakathi kwethu kunye nookhokho bethu bubekwe lula ngokuqwalaselwa kweziganeko ezingaqhelekanga, ukusuka ekubonakaleni kwe "ghosts" kunye neepoltergeists, nokuphela kwamaphupha apho izihlobo ezifayo ziphila. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwiiphupha ezinjalo, abantu babona oogogo babo. Kwaye inzululwazi ayithandabuzeki ukuba le mibono yasebusuku ithatha ulwazi oluthe ngqo kubo, oluya kuphulaphulwa. Nangona ungathathi amaphupha akho ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ubuncinane uzama ukuqonda oko ugogo ohlala efile. Ngokukodwa ukuba iphupha lenze iinguqu ezinamandla okanye ezilungileyo kuwe, kwaye uvuka ngesithukuthezi ngenxa yoloyiko olunolwazi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, wavuka ephazamiseka kakhulu.
Unjani umkhulukazi ofile ophuphayo?
Ukuze uguqule iphupha ngokuchanekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha ezininzi njengoko kunokwenzeka. Umzekelo, enoba kwakukho ugogo ohlala esele efile, evuya okanye edabukisayo, nokuba uthethe nantoni na, enoba unika iingcebiso okanye imali, njl njl. Ukuba ephupheni umntu usandul 'ukubona nje umntu ophilayo, isihlobo esifileyo, eli phupha libonisa ukuba uyamkhumbula kakhulu kwaye akakwazi ukwamukela intlungu yokulahleka. Kwaye elinye iphupha likwazi ukuthetha ngenguqu ebomini, umzekelo, ngomtshato.
Incwadi yokuphupha yeLunar kumbuzo wento ephilileyo iindwendwe ezilahlekileyo eziphuphayo, ngokuyininzi ugogo, izimpendulo ezinjengalezi: unomama onomdla wokuphumelela, udabukisayo lubonisa ukubonakala kwazo naziphi na iingxaki ebomini. Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, ukuba ugogo efile uphupha ubomi, ngoko ke umntu uza kuluvavanya okanye alahlekelwe yilahleko. Ngelixa ekhuluma ephupheni kunye nomzala, umntu kufuneka akhumbule amagama akhe ngokusemandleni akho kwaye alandele icebiso alinikezayo. Ukuba ugogo ugxininisa ukuba umnike uhlobo oluthile lwesithembiso, ngoko, ngokwenene, kungekudala uza kuba noxanduva lwezenzo zakho. Ukuba unika into ephupha, kufuneka ulindele ininzi inhlanhla.
Ukuba ephupheni wabona indlela owakanga ngayo ugogo ovusiwe, ngoko kufuneka ukwesaba nayiphi na ilahleko. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba baya kuba yinto engafanelekanga, ngokuchaseneyo, unokukrazula ukugula, amatyala , izithembiso ezingazalwanga, njl njl. Ukuba ugogo wakho wakanga omnye umntu kwizalamane ephupheni lakho, ngoko ilahleko ziya kuba semali, kwaye kufuneka ulungiselele iindleko ezingalindelekanga. Iphupha apho ufumanisa khona u-grand-mother, uhlala ixesha elide ngaphandle kokugula kunye neengxaki ezinzulu. Ukuba uphupha ephupha
Kutheni umama oshonile ehlala, kodwa ke uyafa ephupheni?
Maxa wambi sinokuphupha ukuba ugogo ofile uhleli, kodwa ke uyafa. Kwaye iphupha elo limele ngokuqinisekileyo lithathwe njengesilumkiso. Ukuba ubona ngokucacileyo umzuzu wokufa kukagogo, ngoko kufuneka ulindele ezinye iindaba ezimbi. Ukuba ephupheni unogogo akazange afe nje phambi kwamehlo akho, kodwa ke wambona elele ebhokisini, ngoko kulungele ukuqala ukujonga ngokwakho izenzo zakho. Kubonakala ukuba ngokukhawuleza izenzo zakho ziza kubangela ukuxabana okukhulu nezihlobo.