Kuba ixesha elide abantu baye bazama ukuchaza amaphupha abo ukuze bafumane ingqalelo kwixesha elizayo. Namhlanje, ngenxa yamabhuku amaninzi ephupha, unokwazi ukucacisa nayiphi na iphupha. Into ephambili kukuqwalasela zonke iinkcukacha eziphambili zesalathiso xa utolika.
Kutheni uphupha umlomo?
Ngokusoloko leli phupha likhonza njengesilumkiso esithile ukuba kusondele umntu onokumangalisa, apho ekugqibeleni kunokuchaphazela ubomi kamva. Ngomntu, umbono wobusuku, apho avula khona umlomo wakhe, ubonisa ukuba akayilungele ukwamukela iimpawu zesetyhini ezikhoyo, umz Ukulala, apho kufuneka upende umlomo wakho ngomlomo ogqamile emva kokukhethwa kwexesha elide lomthunzi - oku kukuphawula ukuba ebomini bobubomi kuya kuba nzima ukufumana indoda ehloniphekileyo. Umtyholi ucebisa ukuba aphinde acinge iimfuno kubameli bobulili obuhlukile. Umbono ebusuku, apho udwebe umlomo, ubonisa ukuba ebomini kukho umqhubi ofihla iimvakalelo zakhe . Ukuba umlomo wawubonwe ngumfazi ongaziwayo, ngoko kufuneka ulindele ukukopela.
Kwezinye iimeko, iphupha apho umlomo usebenza khona emlonyeni usebenza njengombonakalo wokuthi lowo uphuphayo akakubonakali ukunyaniseka ekusebenzelaneni nabanye abantu. Mhlawumbi ngokwenene uhlala uvale "imiski". Ukupenda umlomo ngomlomo obomvu kwiphupha, kuthetha, ebomini boqobo, lowo uphuphayo akanalo nayiphi na inkathazo malunga nokubonakala kwakhe. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba kufuneka ufihle iimvakalelo eziyinyaniso. Kumantombazana amantombazana, lo mbono ebusuku uqikelele ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nolwazi olutsha. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba ukuba kufuneka upende umlomo wakho ephupheni ngomlomo , ngokukhawuleza uzakujongana nokukhohlisa kunye nokungcatsha. Ukuba umphuphi ugqoba umlomo - oku kuyimpawu yokuba kungekudala kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima, kwaye oku akuyi kuzisa nwabisa.