Ukuthanda ukuhlala uzama ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kuyo nayiphi na ingxabano, ukufumana isisombululo esiphezulu kubini. Kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukwenza oko kubomi bokwenene kunye nabathandekayo ababini, iphupha elixhalabileyo, apho ubuhlobo obuhle beqabane bachithwa khona, lunokuphazamisa umongo welanga elizayo. Ukuvuka ngesithukuthezi esibandayo kunye nokuphazamiseka malunga nokuxabana nomntu omthandayo, iingcali zincoma ukuba ungakhathazeki. Kuyafaneleka ukuqokelela konke ukuzinza nokuphulaphula ezi ngcebiso.
Kutheni uxabana nomfana wakho othandekayo?
Ukususela kwimbono yengqondo, nayiphi na ukungaqondani kwiphupha kubonakalisa konke okuphazamisa ubuthongo ngobomi bokwenene. Njengoko uyazi, ngexesha lokulala i-subconscious ivukile. Kubonakala kubangela umntu ukuba afune isisombululo kwiingxaki zakhe kwimeko apha. Akuyimfuneko ukuba ube nolwalamano oludityanisiweyo nesiqingatha sesibini ukwenzela ukuba ube neengxaki ezifanayo. Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha elinjalo ngumphumo wokucinga ngokugqithiseleyo ngento ethi "ngokukhawuleza siphikisana".
Kule meko, ukuba ukuxabana nomntu othandekayo kuyiphupha, izazi zeengqondo zicebisa ukuphucula ubudlelwane nayo, oko kuthetha ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ufunde isisombululo esifanelekileyo sokuxabana. Kwaye le ngcebiso iyasebenza nakwizo zibini eziphila kumphefumlo.
Kodwa i-esotericism ayikhawulezi ukukholisa loo ngcebiso kwaye iguqulela ingxabano nendoda ethandekayo ngokubonakala kweengxaki emsebenzini. Umgca weengcamango zeli meko kukuba iphupha liza kuba naluncedo ukuba li-3, 10, 25, 27 okanye 31. Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile ukuba kwithuba lonyaka unjalo iphupha. Ngoko, ubusika buza kubangela ubundlobongela kwiintsapho zangempela, intwasahlobo - ingxabano kunye nabalingane emsebenzini, ihlobo - ubunzima obuninzi nomntu oyintanda yakho, kunye nekwindla "kuya kunika" ukungaqondani
Kutheni uxabana nentombi yakho?
Amadoda amancinci njengephupha elingathandekiyo uthembisa inkunkuma yezemali. Kwaye ngenxa yezenzo ezingenangqiqo. Emva kwakho konke, isizathu sokuba lukhuni kunye nokungaboni kakuhle komntu . Eyona nto inomdla kukuba, unamandla ngakumbi xa umntu olala ephaphazelekayo, ibuhlungu ngakumbi. Ngoko, ukuba kwakunokwenzeka ukukhumbula kuphela ezimbalwa iintsuku emva kwephupha eliphazamisayo, ngoko umntu akanako ukukhathazeka malunga nokugcinwa kwezinto eziphathekayo. Kwimeko apho kusasa kuqala ngezinyembezi kunye nemvakalelo embi, kukho ithuba lokucinga ngezenzo zakho.