Nangona kungokwemvelo ukuba umntu afune ukuvula isigqubuthelo sexesha elizayo, lo mnqweno awusayi kuba nzima kunokuba kufike ixesha lokuthandana . Ngelo xesha sithatha ukuthabatha ukuxhamla inceba kumntu othandekayo, kubandakanywa kwi-runes.
Yona kanye igama elithi runa ekuguquleleni lithetha "imfihlelo", ukususela kwixesha la mandulo le miqondiso yayicatshangelwa impawu yemilingo, yayigwetshwe ilitye okanye igalelwe emthini. Iimbalezi zazihlobise izixhobo kunye nempahla yendlu, nganye yayinegama layo kwaye elowo lalinamathele kunkulunkulu othile, into eyenzekayo, okanye into nje.
Kwakukholelwa ukuba nganye ye-runes ivela kwimvelaphi engcwele, kwaye ngoko iyakwazi ukudibanisa namagunya aphezulu. I-set of runes ingasetyenziswe njengesibikezelo kunye nokuxoxwa kweenhlanhla, kubandakanya uthando kunye nolwalamano.
Izindlela zokuqagela kwi-runes zininzi. Kwaye iimeko ezininzi ezibandakanyeka kwimeko, ingcaciso echazayo ngakumbi. Kule nqaku, sichaza iindlela ezininzi zokuxela i-runes, kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lokuvumisa.
Ukukhawuleza ukuqikelela kwi-runes- "URune Odin"
Inkqubo yokuqagela kwi-runes kwiintsebenziswano zikhawuleza kwaye zilula, kodwa zinokuthenjwa. Unokuqiqa ngokuncediswa kwerune enye, ukuyikhupha (ngokungaqhelekanga) ukusuka kwipakethi yesikhwama sokugcina. Ngelo xesha kubalulekile ukugcina engqondweni umbuzo okanye umfanekiso womntu othandekayo, kwaye ke i-rune iya kunceda ukuncedisa ngokuchanekileyo into eyenzekayo kulwalamano nomntu othandekayo, uncede ukuqonda iziganeko ezithile kwaye uphendule imibuzo ephakamileyo: uthando lubumbana phakathi kwakho, kwaye yintoni ephazamisayo yolu thando. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyibuza imibuzo yakho ngokuchanekileyo njengoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umlingo we-runes uninzi kakhulu, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu ongenalwazi unokukwazi ukuchazwa ngokucacileyo impendulo.
Ukuqagela kwiimitha ezintathu - "Umbuzo"
Kulobu bungqina, kufuneka uphinde umise umbuzo, kwaye ugcine engqondweni yakho de kube i-runes ihamba phambi kwakho. Yenza i-runes ukusuka kwesokudla ukuya kwesobunxele kwaye uyifunde ngendlela efana nayo. Ukuba uqikelele ubuhlobo:
- I-rune yokuqala iya kukubonisa imeko;
- Okwesibini kukubonisa ulawulo lwesenzo esilindelekile kuwe;
- I-rune yesithathu kukuchazwa ngokuthe ngqo kwimeko ekufuneka ilandele kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuqikelela ngobudlelwane "Iimitha eziyisithupha"
Imfuno eziphambili zenkqubo zihlala zingatshintshi: ufumana inombolo efunekayo yee-runes, ugxininise kwizinto ozifunayo. Uwasasaza ukusuka kwesokudla ukuya kwesobunxele kwaye ufunda:
- I-rune yokuqala yexesha elidlulileyo, oko kukuthi, bekuphi phakathi kwakho nentanda yakho;
- okwesibini kuya kunceda ukuqonda oko akubonayo;
- okwesithathu uqikelela ukuba uphuhliso olongezelelweyo;
- lwesine sibonisa isizathu sokuba uphendukele kwii-runes;
- isihlanu siza kukuxelela oko kufuneka uyenze ukugcina okanye ukuvuselela uthando ;
- lesithandathu liza kubonisa ikamva elikulindele phantsi kwemiqathango yokuba imiyalelo yesihlanu yeerune iyazaliseka.
Imithetho yokuvumisa kwiimigizo zothando
- Konke esikhwameni sakho kufuneka kube nemikhosi engamashumi amabini anesine okanye amabini anesithandathu, ixabiso elifanele libekwe ngaseminwe yakho (okanye kwimemori);
- vula ii-runes ukusuka kwesokudla ukuya kwesobunxele kwaye uzifunde ngendlela efanayo;
- ngexesha lokuxoxwa kweenhlanhla, gcina ingqalelo umbuzo okanye umfanekiso womntu oqhagamshelene naye;
- kukholelwa ukuba akusiyo imilinganiselo yokucinga ukuba unomdla (ikakhulukazi ukuba uqikelele ubudlelwane phakathi kwabanye abantu), kwaye uqikelele uthando kumagqabini xa umnye umntu engayikrokreli nayiphi na imvakalelo yakho;
- Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuyibuza imibuzo yakho ngokungabonakaliyo, ngenxa yokuba i-rune nganye ayichazwanga enye, kwaye umntu ongenalwazi angenza izigqibo ezingalunganga.
Yaye ukhumbule: uhamba ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuphela kusoloko kusezandleni zakho!