"Ndingumda," uTess Holliday wavuma kwiphepha lakhe kwi-Instagram. Umzekelo ombala kunye nobukhulu obubelwe kunye nabalandeli ukubonakalisa ubunina kunye nobunzima obunxulumene nokudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nabazali. U-Tess oneminyaka engama-31 ubudala u-Riley oneminyaka eyi-11 ubudala, kunye neenyanga ezisibhozo ezedlule wazala unyana kaBuyie, "owajika umhlaba oqhelekileyo".
Tess ixesha elide ixesha lokunakekelwa ngempumelelo kwiintsana kunye nemifanekiso yefestile, kodwa ixesha elihle kakhulu lalo lonke umntwana luza, uBuyie waqala ukusika amazinyo okuqala. Umzekelo onzima awufumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo kunye nezikhalazo zobuthathaka kunye nokukhathala okuqhubekayo:
Namhlanje andilalanga ngo-3 ebusuku okanye ebusuku? Ngenxa yokuba uBurie unobuthongo obuthathaka, uyavuka xa ndimfaka kwisibhedlele. Amazinyo akhe anqunywe kwaye akukhathaleki kuye ukuba unina unomsebenzi opheleleyo weeyure ezingama-15 ngomso. Ndizama ukungaphumeleli, ndiyisele ikhofi yam intandokazi kwaye ndiyipende emlonyeni wam ngomlomo obomvu obomvu, kodwa konke oku ngenxa yomsindo womntwana kunye nabathandekayo, eneneni, ndidiniwe kwaye namhlanje konke akunjalo. Ndingumda.
Ndingumdawulo ...
Umzekelo wathintela kwisihloko esibaluleke kakhulu, kufuphi nomfazi ngamnye, ngoko isityhilelo sikaTess Holliday sabangela amazwana amaninzi kunye namazwi enkxaso.
Ngoku ndibhalela kwaye ndikhala, andinakunceda, ihlala iiyure ezimbini. Ukunyaniseka, ndingumda wamandla kunye nobuchule bam. Ukuzalwa komntwana kwakuvavanyo olunzulu kum kwaye ngoku ndaqonda ukuba kutheni ndixinekile. Ndiva noxinzelelo olukhulu lwangaphakathi ukususela rhoqo kwaye yonke indawo ibukeke kakuhle - kunzima. Ndinezibilini ze-hormone, ukuncelisa i-Bowie, ukungabikho kokulala, iingxowa phantsi kwamehlo ekukhathala, isikhumba somzimba kunye nomzimba kunye namabala obomvu kunye nobuthakathaka obunzima. Andikwazi ukuzikhupha ukuba ndiphume ebhedeni, njani abanye abafazi bahlangabezana nalo?
UTess Holliday akakwazi ukulibamba iinyembezi
UTess Holliday kunye noNyana Bowie
Funda kwakhona- I-Tess Holiday yafuna ukuveliswa kwemithi yokukhusela!
- I-Tess Holiday yathokoza ngokugubha umtshato ngokupapasha kwi-Instagram
- Iimodeli ezintle
Kwimodeli ye-Instagram esayinwe ngaphezu kwababhalisi bezigidi, ngoko umbuzo wathintela wonk 'ubani ojongene nokukhathala nokukhathazeka kwabazali.
Ndiyaqonda ukuba ndikhethile ngokukhethekileyo umsebenzi ofuna ukulawula rhoqo ukubonakala kwaye ndizama ukufanisa umfanekiso owenziwe. Umnqweno omhle kunye nobuhle bukhuthaza mna, kodwa oku akuyona nto ephambili! Kwimi, esebenza kwimboni yobuhle, kubalulekile ukufumana ukulinganisela phakathi kwenceba kunye nokufuna ubuhle. Ngaba umntu uyakuxolela into embi, ukuba ukhathele, akafumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo ngenxa yomntwana, kwaye ufuna ukufihla, ukukhala? Akunzima ... Ndiyathemba ukuba ngexesha elizayo into iya kutshintsha kuluntu kwaye abantu bayeke ukukhangela abantu abanjengawe, njengomama ababi. Sizama ukugcina iingxaki zethu kuthi kunye nayo yonke into embi, kunzima.