Kutheni umntwana ebetha kwiikhonkwane?

Xa umntwana ekhula, kunye nezakhono ezisebenzayo, ufumana nemikhwa emibi. Ngoko, umama kunye nootata baxhatshazwa ngumbuzo wokuba umntwana uhlala ephosa izipikili zakhe, kwaye akukho memezo kunye nesijeziso kuye akusebenzi. Makhe siqwalasele izizathu eziphambili zeli bakala.

Yintoni efanelekileyo ngenxa yengqalelo eqhubekayo yentsana kwizikhonkwane zakho?

Oogqirha bezingane kunye neengqondo zengqondo zichonga izinto ezininzi ezibangela ukubonakala kwezikhonkwane ezibhaliweyo:

1. Ukususela ebusana, umntwana wayevame ukuthanda ukunwa ngumnwe okanye ingono. Imizamo yabazali yokumnqumla kulo mkhuba idla ngokukhokelela ekubeni uyaqala ukuluma izipikili zakhe.
2. Ukuba kwintsapho nawaphi na umntu omdala ogqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo izipikili, kunomngcipheko omkhulu ukuba umntwana uya kuphinda emva kwakhe. Emva koko, abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwimimiselo yokuxelisa.
3. Esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo ezibangela ukuba abantwana baxhamle kwiikhonkwane zabo ziimeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Ukuhamba, ukuxabana kwabazali, ukukhuliswa ngokusemthethweni, naluphi na ukukhathazeka kwengqondo kubakhokelela ekubeni inkwenkwe engazi kakuhle ibeka iminwe yakhe emlonyeni wayo.

Unokukunceda njani umntwana ukuba asuse umkhuba ombi?

Okwangoku, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuncedisa umntwana ekubambeni iipilisi zesikhonkwane. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali babuza malunga nokuba kutheni umntwana ebopha izipikili kunye nantoni na enokuyenza ngomonakalo onobungozi. Iingcali zincoma oku kulandelayo:

1. Unokugcoba izipikili zakho ngejisi le-aloe okanye ipropper eshushu, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba umphumo uza kuba mfutshane.
2. Zama ukwakha umoya ozolileyo, ohambelana nendlu, apho umntwana engayi kubakho uxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelekileyo. Ukuthetha ngenyameko nosana, ukuba ubudala buvumelekile, kwaye uzame ukumbiza kwincoko engathethekiyo malunga noko kukukhathazayo. Musa ukunqanda, kodwa uchaza ukuba izipikili ezigqabileyo zikhangeleka kakhulu, kuba kukho ukuchithwa kweminye iiplati.
3. Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni umntwana ephosa izipikili ezandleni zakho, zama ukulandela kwakhona kwixesha elizayo, ukuze bahlale beqeshwe ngexesha.
4. Thatha umsebenzi wokudlala wengane, apho uya kusebenzisa ngezandla zakhe ngokuzenzekelayo: makumbume, athathe, aqoke umyili, umqhubi kunye nemidlalo yebhodi.
5. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhanya okubonakalayo, okuphelisa ukreqo olugqithisileyo kunye nokwesaba, kunceda.
6. Ukuze ungayizibuza ukuba kutheni umntwana ekhupha izipikili zakhe ngenzondelelo, hlawule ingqalelo kuye ngokusemandleni akho: ukuthetha, ukuhamba, ukumbamba.