UTom Ford uthetha ngokulwa nokuxhatshazwa noloyiko lokulahlekelwa yindodana

Kwiimida zentengiso yefashini akuqhelekanga ukuba uthethe ngokubuthathaka kunye neengxaki zakho, ukwesaba ukuba uya kuba yinto engenamsebenzi kwaye ungenakunceda, yenza ukuba ulwabalale kunye neenkohlakalo zakho kwisangqa sohlobo olusondeleyo. Kwiphepha lokugqibela loMagazini we-Out, uTom Ford wanikeza ingxoxo engqongqo kwaye wavuma ukuba unengxaki ezinzulu zokuxhomekeka kotywala kwaye nguye kuphela owamnceda ukuba ahlale elawulwa yindodana yakhe.

Njengomphumo wokusebenza okuvelisayo, uTom wanikezelwa ngesihloko esithi "Umntu wobugcisa-2016", ngokungathandabuzekiyo uyamncoma i-ego, kodwa umenze aphinde acinge ngesimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini bakhe kunye neendlela zokufumana uzuko.

Uncedwa yindodana yakhe ukunqoba ukuxhomekeka kotywala!

Impumelelo, italente, iimpendulo kunye neengcamango zomlawuli ezibangela ukunyaniseka kunye nomona, ixesha elide alikwazanga ukujamelana "needemon zangaphakathi". Kubonakala ngathi wayekwazi ukuqonda konke ayeliphuphayo. Kwintetho-ndlebe, wayethetha ngeemfihlelo zokulwa kwakhe ngokomoya kunye nokufezekiswa kweminqweno, enikwa kakhulu. Ngubani owamxhasa kulo lonke ixesha kwaye unceda ukudala?

UTom Ford akazange afihlile ukuba wayengumlingani ovulekileyo. Ngomhla ka-Septemba 2012, umyili wezobugcisa wabhekana nomlobi wakhe okhethiweyo uRichard Buckley. Esi sibini sihlangene iminyaka engaphezu kwemashumi amabini kwaye isigqibo sokubambisana nonyana, kubo, sasingenabulungisa kwaye sinokulinganisela. Iminyaka emine eyadlulayo, ngoncedo lomama wokuzalwa, umntwana wabonakala kwintsapho, u-Alexander John Buckley Ford.

Ngokutsho kukaTom, ukuzalwa kwakhe kwindodana kunye nolonwabo emtshatweni akuzange kumlethe uxolo lwengqondo kwaye uphume kwixinzelelo. Umqambi wayevuma ukuba unengxaki ngaphambili kwaye wayekhangela utywala, kodwa kuphela kwiminyaka engama-40 waqonda ukuba akakwazi ukulawula utywala kunye neziyobisi ezidliwe. Kwi-intanethi kunye neNew York Post, uTom wabelane:

Ndandisoloko ndifuna abantwana, kodwa ukundiza kwimi sebenzi kunye neengxaki ezingunaphakade zamcaphukisa iphupha lam unyana kamva. Xa uJack ebonakala kwintsapho yethu (yintoni ebizwa ngayo uAlexander John kwintsapho), ndandisemgangathweni kwaye ndazingakwazi ukuzilawula. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ndivumele ukuba ndibe kufuphi nomntwana kwimeko enjalo. Kunzima ukuba ndiqonde ukuba ndiye ndawaphonsa kwizitepsi, kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo, ndatshisa ngogwayi.

Ukudala nokuphila ngekamva yonyana wakhe!

UTom Ford akafihleli ukuba uyazicwangcisa imisebenzi yomzali kwaye akayiqondi yonke imisebenzi kunye nobunzima. Ngethuba nje waqonda kwaye wavakalisa intatheli zithi:

Indodana yedwa umntu endiya kuzincama ngaye. Emva kokubonakala kwakhe, ndasusa iingcamango zokuzibhubhisa entloko yam. UBawo ube yinto enzima kodwa ebalulekileyo kum.

Kakade, uTom Ford wacela uncedo lwezokwelapha, emva kwekhosi yokuvuselela, waqhekeza kwihlabathi lefashini kunye nobugcisa befilimu ngamandla anamandla. Ukushiya isithuba somlawuli wokudala weGucci kwaye uvula uphawu lwakhe oluthile uTom Ford, kwiminyaka yamuva nje, uyazibona kwi-industry yefilimu. Umzobo othi "Lonely Man", okhululwe ngo-2008, wambonisa njengomlawuli onetalente, ukuqeshiswa kwefilimu yesibili "Ngaphantsi kwengubo yobusuku" kuya kubanjwa inyanga ezayo.

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Siyaqiniseka ukuba ngokuphelisa umzabalazo kunye nobuthakathaka bangaphakathi, siyakwazi ukuonwabela kuphela ukuqokelela kwombhali omtsha, kodwa kunye nemisebenzi yomlawuli kunye nemisebenzi yefilimu.