Ukwenza umsebenzi othile ekhaya okanye nje ukuphumla okuncane, omama abaninzi baquka iikhathuni kwonyana okanye intombi yabo, elalikhawulela umntwana ixesha elide. Okwangoku, uninzi lwabahlengikazi bavuma ukuba uneminyaka emithathu ubudala onokubukela iTV ngaphandle kwexesha elide, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka enze ngaphandle kwakhe.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngomntwana unako ukuphuma uye esitrato-apho uya kufumana ukuzizonwabisa yena kwaye uya kukwazi ukunxibelelana nabaontanga bakhe. Okwangoku, olu khetho alungele wonke umntu. Okokuqala, xa uphuma kunye nomntwana wakho, awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na malunga nendlu, kwaye okwesibini, inokuthi igalele imvula ngaphandle.
Kule nqaku, siya kukuxelela oko ungakwenza kumntwana kwiminyaka emithathu ekhaya, kuquka nehlobo, ixesha elithile, ukwenza izinto ezithile okanye ukuzinikela ixesha.
Kunokuba uhlale endlwini yomntwana eneminyaka eyi-3-4?
Njengomthetho, nayiphi na imidlalo ephuhlisayo ithatha abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu engabikho ngaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-10-15. Ewe, kwaye ngeli xesha bahlala befuna ukuba khona koomama abanomntu okanye umntu omdala. Ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-3 uyabhuqwa, akanakushiya abazali bakhe yedwa ngomzuzu, abuze imibuzo engapheliyo, aze acele uMama okanye uTata ukuba adlale naye.
Kodwa ukuthatha umntwana ongenasiphelo kwiminyaka emithathu ixesha elide kunzima kunokuba ucinge. Zama ezi ngcebiso:
- Cetyisa umntwana ukuba akuncede malunga nendlu. Chaza kumntwana ukuba uyamnika umsebenzi ojongene noxanduva, kwaye uya kuthi, ngenzondelelo enkulu, uzame ukufezekisa ngokusemandleni akho. Ngokomzekelo, i-crumb iyakwazi ukuhlela iisokisi ngamabini, ikhupha intlama yokubhaka nge-pin pin okanye uhlambe imifuno yesaladi.
- Ukuba upheka iindwangu okanye ubhaka ikhekhe, unike ucezu lwenhlama kumntwana, kwaye makumsebenzise njengempahla yokubunjwa. Ukongezelela, unako ukuthulula kwiitya ezimbalwa zeepayi, iimbotyi okanye i-pasta.
Abantwana kule minyaka bathanda ukuthulula iimveliso ezifanayo kwisitya esinye ukuya kwelinye, bahlele ngombala okanye ubukhulu, kwaye benze iipatheni ezahlukeneyo kubo. Ukuba ubeka i-manga kwi-tray enkulu , okanye enye i-croup encinane, umntwana uya kuvuya "ukudweba" ngoncedo lweminwe. Izinto ezinjalo azigcini nje ukukhawuleza i-fagots eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, kodwa iphinda ihlakulele izakhono ezincinane zezithuthi, ebaluleke kakhulu kule minyaka. - Ekugqibeleni, indlela enkulu yokuthabatha umntwana yindawo yokudlala. Abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-3-4 ubudala balungele ukudlala iiyure kunye neemeko ezahlukeneyo, bazicingela ngokwabo kwindima enye.