Ukufa komntu othandekayo, kwaye ngokukodwa umama, kungekhona nje ebomini bokwenene, kodwa nakwiphupha kubangela ukutshatyalaliswa kwangempela. Umntu olele uqinisekile ukuba ubomi abuyilunganga, kuba uthumela amaphupha anjalo. Ngoko okanye akunjalo, siya kufumana.
Yintoni iphupha likaMama?
Mhlawumbi eli phupha likukhathaza emva kwentlekele, kwaye uziva usizi nje ebomini bokwenene, kodwa nakwinqanaba elincinane. Nangona ukubonakala kwephupha elinjalo kungabangela ukuxabana nomama okanye nokugula kwakhe. Ukuba ubomi boqobo umama uyagula, ke iphupha lokufa kwakhe, ngokuchaseneyo, uqikelela ukuba uyabuyiselwa ngokukhawuleza kunye nobomi obude. Ukufa komama ephupheni kunokufanisa nokuba khona kwesifiso esinqwenelekayo sokuseka ubudlelwane naye. Inokwenzeka ukuba, sele ufune ukuhamba kwihlabathi emva kokuhlambalaza ixesha elide, kodwa ungakagqiba ekubeni uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala.
Ngamantombazana, incwadi yephupha, ukufa komama ephupheni, ukuchazela njengenguqu ebalulekileyo ebomini, umzekelo, unokuba ngumtshato, ukuzalwa komntwana, ukukhula komsebenzi, ngokubanzi, into ehlabathini jikelele eya kutshintsha ii-charters zokuphila kwangaphambili.
Xa ukutolika leli phupha, kukufanele ukuqwalasela iimeko apho umzali efile khona. Ukudangala kubangelwe ngengozi okanye ubundlobongela-oku kuwuphawu lokuba ufanele ukhangele ngokugqithiseleyo abantu abakujikelezile. Enye iphupha li lumkisa ukuba kulungele ukulungiselela iimvavanyo ezinzulu. Ukubona kwiphupha ukufa komama ovela kwisifo esibi kunye nesigxina kukubonakalisa ukuba ngokwenene kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kwimpilo yakho, ukhethe ukutya okufanelekileyo ekudleni. Ukuba umama wafa ngenxa yengozi, ukulala kukucebisa ixesha elifutshane lokudlulisa zonke iziganeko ezibalulekileyo, kuba ngoku awufumani nto oyifunayo. Ephusheni, ukubona ukufa komama kuyisilumkiso sokuba ngobomi bokwenene kubalulekile ukwesaba i-scandals kunye nezihlobo eziseduze.