Yintoni enokuyenza kubantwana kwimvelo ehlobo?
Iintsuku ezifudumeleyo zelanga zidalwa ukuba abantwana basebenzise ixesha elininzi kwisitrato ngokunokwenzeka. Ngoko ke, musa ukuzithemba ngeveki yokuphumla kolwandle lolwandle kwaye ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuphucula umntwana wakho ngoku. Kungenzeka ukuba ujabule, ufumane impilo kwaye ufumane umrhumo weemvakalelo ezintle kumakhulukazi kwidolophana okanye kwi-dacha. Ewe, ucela, kunokuba uthathe umntwana kwidolophana ehlobo? - Enyanisweni, iindawo ezisemaphandleni zibonisa iingcamango ezininzi zokuzonwabisa:
- Unokwenza inkampu kunye nokuhlala ubusuku - ukuba intsana yokuphuma ngaphandle kwendalo iya kuba yinto ekhangayo.
- Unokuhamba ngokuloba kunye kunye nentambo ecebileyo kuya kwenza ulwalamano lwakho nomntwana okhulileyo lube nobungqina kwaye lunokwethenjwa.
- Unokuluququzelela iqela lasehlotyeni kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, mema abangani bomntwana - isiganeko siza kukuvumela ukuba wazi kakuhle indawo kunye neminqweno yenzalo.
- Uphuhliso lwezemisebenzi luncedo kakhulu kulutsha lwanamhlanje. Ewe, kunye nomncedisi omncinci omkhulu ehlobo kuza kuba luncedo kakhulu. Ngokubhekiselele kubantwana abancinci - kubo ukuzonwabisa okulungileyo kuya kuba yimiyezo encinane kunye nokuqokelela izinto eziphathekayo.
- Ubume bendalo buyakwenza "ukuzingela isithombe". Imifanekiso emihle iya kuba isikhumbuzo esiqhaqhayo seentsuku ezingenasiphelo zehlobo.
Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuya ekuphumleni kwiphondo ukuya kwi-dacha okanye kwidolophana, akusiyo isizathu sokuhlala ekuthunjweni kweedolophu. Njengomthetho, kwiintsapho ezijwayele ukuhamba, umbuzo wukuthi uthathe abantwana kwimvelo ehlobo, akufanelekile. Ukuya kwisibini esiseduze okanye ehlathini ngeveki-ntsuku baya kuba yinto ekhangayo. Apho, abantwana banokudlala imidlalo eyaneleyo, baqhelane nabameli abahlukahlukeneyo beeflora kunye nemfuyo, kwaye oku, makungabikho iindibano zokuhlwa ezijikelezayo zomlilo.
Yintoni oyenzayo ehlobo?
Ukuba umbuzo wendlela yokuthabatha abantwana kwinqanaba okanye kwidolophana ixazululwe ngokukhawuleza kuxhomekeke kwiimeko kunye nenkampani, ngoko ngokuzilibazisa kweso sixeko kukho iimeko ezininzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iipaki, izikwere, iibhendi, indawo yokudlala, kunye nezoxhobo zezemidlalo kunye nezokuzonwabisa eziza kubancedisa abazali:
- Ukuhamba ukuhamba ungathatha i-badminton, i-scooter, ibhasikidi, i-skateboard, intambo. Ngaloo ndlela, unokudibanisa ishishini ngokuzonwabisa: umntwana akaphefumli umoya omtsha, kodwa uya kuphucula izakhono zakhe zomzimba.
- Abantwana bokudala, ngokuqinisekileyo, bathanda ukudweba kwiinqanawa ze-asphalt. Olu hambo lunokufumana umbala wokuqonda, ngenxa yokuba awukwazi ukudweba nje imidwebo, kodwa, umzekelo, iileta kunye nenani, kunye nabancinci ukuba bafunde imibala.
- Kukho indawo ezininzi ezinomdla kwizixeko ezinkulu. Ukuhamba ukuya kwintsimi yezityalo, i-zoo, i-museum okanye ifama iya kwandisa ulwazi lomntwana kwaye imnike izinto ezininzi.
- Ukuba ubonisa imfesane, nohambo oluqhelekileyo kwi-sandbox kwibala lokudlala lingaba yintengiso. Kukho unokutsala inkunzi eyaziwayo kumaxesha amuva nje, iimfuno zemidlalo.
Ingcwaba entlabathi ibhotile kunye nemephu yongcingo, kwangaphambili, iza ngeenkcukacha uze uqiniseke - umntwana wakho uya kuvuya. - Indlela efanelekileyo yokufumana umntwana obandakanyekayo kwimidlalo kukubeka umzekelo. Yiya yonke intsapho kwindawo yomdlalo kwaye uphucule.
- Kunzima nakakhulu ukuhlela ukuzonwabisa ngokubantwana ngabazali abangenalo ithuba lokuphuma rhoqo. Nangona kunjalo, unokuza nomsebenzi onomdla kwiimvuthu ekhaya. Mthabatha umntwana ukuba asebenze ngeenxa zonke endlwini, enze izinto zobugcisa, upende, uze ufake iipuzzle. Ngenye indlela, nyamekela isilwanyana sakho.