Igumbi labantwana liyinkalo edibeneyo yokuhamba kwabazali. Ngelishwa, inamandla kakhulu ngento yokubonga apha, awuyi kutshabalaliswa, ngokwenene kuyimfuneko ukuba ingqalelo kwaye ibonisa umdlalo wezingane kunye nebhola, kodwa kunokwenzeka ukhethe umgca okhuselekileyo nokhuselekile kwigumbi le karapuza. Umkhwenyana wabantwana wale nkwenkwe ayikho ngaphantsi kwaye iyambala kunezibane zamagumbi amantombazana. Ukwahlukana kuphela kumxholo kunye nemibala.
I-Chandelier yeSilingana Yabantwana Yabantwana
Okokuqala, masichukumise iingcebiso ezimbalwa zokukhetha:
- Ama-chandeliers kwi-nursery kufuneka akhethwe njengento elula xa sikhuluma ngendawo yenkwenkwe encinci (abantwana bavame ukujonga izinto ezizungezile kunye nemibala eqaqambileyo kunye nemilo eyinkimbinkimbi iya kubaphazamisa kuphela, ngoko i-psychology ikwacetyiswa ukuba ikhethe iipatheni ezilula kunye ezibonakalayo kumntwana);
- Xa umntwana ekhula kwaye enemifanekiso yakhe eyintandokazi, kunengqiqo ukuthabatha inkwenkwe yabantwana kwintetho efunwayo (iindidi zeenqwelo, iinqanawa, iimoto okanye ibhaluni ngebhaksi namhlanje ezinye zezinto ezizithengiweyo kakhulu);
- i-candle egumbini lencinci kufuneka ukuba ukhethe umntwana ngokwakhe okanye uvume ukhetho lwakho oluluhlu olucetywayo (ukususela malunga ne-9 ubudala ubudala beengqondo zeengqondo bacebise ukuba bangazikhethi ngokukhetha kwabo kwaye bavumele ukuba bakhethe ukuyila kwegumbi ngokwabo).
Ngokubhekiselele kwimiqulu yamathambo, bhetele kungcono ukushiya izakhiwo zeglasi eziyinkimbinkimbi ekamelweni labantwana kwinkwenkwe. Kukho izinto zanamhlanje kwaye zinamandla, ukhusele ngokupheleleyo kwimpilo yengane. Musa ukulibala ukuba kwigumbi lomntwana omncinci ukufakwa ngokukhawuleza kokukhanya okuqhaqhayo kunokwesabisa, ngoko ke kukufanelekile ukunikela ngokukhethekileyo kwiimodeli ezinokukwazi ukulungelelanisa ubukhulu bokukhanya kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukwandise.
Imfuno yesikhanti kwigumbi lomfana oyishumi elivisayo liphantse lifana neemfuno zezibane zokulala komzali. Musa ukulibala malunga nombala wokukhanya okukhanya, okumele kube kufutshane ngokusemandleni kwendalo.
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