Ngokuqhelekileyo abanikazi beenja babhekene nengxaki yenja yokubetha. Ngokuqhelekileyo inja iyaluma ngexesha lomdlalo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha inokuluma umntu kwaye kungekho sizathu esicacileyo. Ukuba inja ihlala ibetha, ngoko kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo okukhawuleza. Kule nqaku, siza kujonga into enokuyenza xa inja ihlaba.
Kungcono ukuyeka ukuzama ukuluma enye intshontsho. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba intshontsho ayiyiyo nto yokudlala, kodwa isilwanyana esinamazinyo kunye namacwecwe. Unikwa ngendalo ukuba aphile kwindawo yendalo. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuba wenze into enje inja.
Luhlobo luni lokubetha?
Ngethuba le midlalo, intshontsho ifunda ukulawula amandla okuluma, okuyiluncedo kuye xa kuqinisekiswa ubudlelwane obuhle. Kwenzeka ukuba intsapho ngethuba lomdlalo, ibuhlungu ngokukhawulelana nomnye umntu. Emva koko, ekuphenduleni, uya kuphulaphula ngokukratshi kwaye engathandekiyo. Kuba intshontsho kuyimpawu yokuba uyadla kakhulu, kwaye ngexesha elizayo akayi kuluma okanye ayilumke ngaphantsi.
Xa intshontsho ingena endlwini apho kungekho zinja khona, iquka umntu kwimidlalo yakhe, icinga ukuba ilungu lepakethi yakhe. Ngokuqhelekileyo ugijimela umninimzi aze amkhonze ngobumnene. Umnini ngamnye udlala ne-puppy yakhe, kodwa khumbula ukuba nakulo mdlalo awufanele uvumele ukukhala. Okokuqala intsana izama ukuluma ukuze ithathe i-toy, kwaye xa umdlalo odlala umdlalo uphela, uphinde uzame ukumbamba isandla. Lo ngumqondiso ukuba awukwazi ukuzithengisa.
Kubalulekile ukuba umntu uphendule njani ngokudlala ngothando. Ukugxotha intshontsho, umntu uyamnika isizathu sokuba acinge ukuba lo mdlalo kwaye uyabetha kanzima. Ukukhuthaza le ndlela yokuziphatha nokubandakanyeka kumdlalo kunye ne-puppy, okanye kumcebise ukuba angalimi, umntu uya kumvusa umntwana kuphela. Emva koko intsana iqala ukuluma ngakumbi kwaye ekugqibeleni ingabangela intlungu kumnini. Ukuba umdlalo wegeyimu awuyeki, ngoko unokuthi uguqulwe ngokuziphatha kakubi kumnini. Emva koko akuyi kuthatha ixesha elide ukukhalisa kunye nentukuthelo. Oku kwenzeka ngeqabile, kodwa kulungile ukukhumbula oku.
Kuthekani ukuba inja iyakhala?
- Kufuneka uzame ukuphepha nayiphi na imidlalo kunye nebhola, apho ezama ukukuluma. Ukuba intshontsho ikubethela kumdlalo, ngoko akufanele umgxulule, umtyhale okanye umthinte ngeempumlo. Kukulungele ukuphendula ngokuqhelekileyo kuye - ngokuvakalayo nokungahambi kakuhle, uze uhambe. Intsana iya kuqonda ukuba umdlalo uyekile ngenxa yokuba akukhathaze. Ukuba uhlala usabela ngendlela yakho, kungekudala intsapho yakho iya kuluma kangako kwaye ayikho into eninzi. Ngale ndlela, unako ukufundisa intsana ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-4.5 ubudala ukuba ungalindi.
- Xa inja inamazinyo asisigxina, ukubaluleka kokubetha kuyahluka. Ukuba kuleso sikhulu intsana iyakubetha njalo, ke le ngxaki yokulawula. Ngoko intsapho yakho ikholelwa ukuba yintloko kwinqaku (intsapho). Unokukwazi ukuhlangabezana nokunciphisa isikhundla esilukhuni sakho sezilwanyana.
- Ungavumeli inja ilale nawe embhedeni. Yima kwakhona,
ukuba uzama ukuhamba ngezinyathelo eziphambi kwakho, umenze ahambe. - Yondla inja kuphela emva kokuba intsapho yonke iqedile ukuyidla. Makhe ixesha elithile isilwanyana sakho kunye nomfundi ufumana ukutya, imidlalo, ukuhamba, i-caresses. Umzekelo, ngaphambi kokuhamba okanye umdlalo, unike umyalelo kwaye unike inja elindelekileyo, kuphela emva kokuphunyezwa kwayo.
Ukuba intshontsho ibetha okanye ikhupha kuwe, imthabathe ngokubuna kunye nombhobho wayo ejongene nomgangatho, jonga nzima emehlweni. Yithi umyalelo "awunakwenzeka" okanye "fu" wokukhetha kwakho (gcina unamathela kwelinye iqela), nyathela kude kwaye ungayithobeli loo mizuzu eyi-15-20. Le yenzakaliso ngokwemvelo, ngokunjalo ingaba nayiphi na inja endala ngokumalunga ne-puppy. Musa ukumemeza kwaye ungambethi intshontsho, ngoku uxhasa nje isimo sakhe sengqondo kwaye uya kuluma kwaye akhuphe ngakumbi. Iseluleko esifanayo singasetyenziswa ngokuphumelelayo kumbuzo wendlela yokukhupha inja endala ukuba ilume.
Khumbula, xa ukhuthaza okanye ungawunaki ukutshaywa kwebhola, ubeka umngcipheko wokuhlangabezana neengxaki zendlela yokukhubaza inja ekulileni. Thatha ingcebiso yethu ngokukodwa, kwaye inja yakho ayiyi kuba nefuthe kuwe okanye ekhaya lakho.