Kubafazi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intsapho yabo iyavuya, ngoko ukuze zikhusele kwiingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo, ungasebenzisa uncedo lomlingo. Abaninzi banomdla kwizinto zokwenza umyeni afune umfazi, ayeke ukusela kunye nakwezinye iimeko, iqhinga liza kunceda. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ukholo xa kukho inkolelo engaqinisekanga kwimiphumo emihle, kuba phambi kokungathandabuzeki, akukho nto iya kwenzeka.
Iqhinga lokuba indoda yam ingahambi
Abafazi abaninzi banesimo esinzima sokuba iqabane lingatshintsha kwaye likhusele ubudlelwane babo kwingxaki enjalo, unokuqhuba isithethe esilula. Kuye kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela amakhandlela amabandla amancinci kunye neenwele ezininzi zomyeni, umzekelo, athathwe kwikhefu. Ufanele uholele isithethe sonke. Khanyisa ikhandlela, kwaye ke, kwintlambo yenye yazo, utshise iinwele uze uqiniseke ukuba uqoke umlotha. Emva koko, thetha amagama angentla kwekhandlela:
"Njengokuba umlilo wesikhandlela ngokukhawuleza kwaye utshisa ngokunyanisekileyo iinwele zintanda yam, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomlingane), ngoko ke ke zonke iingcinga ezinqwenela ekhanda lakhe mazize zibhekiswe kumabambisene bam. Kwintliziyo yakhe engangqongqokanga esifubeni emehlweni omnye umfazi, kodwa yena wam uphupha kwaye efuna ukusukela kuyo yonke indawo. Ukushisa, ukulungiswa komlilo, iminqweno yakhe inomdla ngaphakathi kuye kwaye ungabavumeli baphume. Njengoko ikhandlela elingcwele liyancibilika kwaye likhala, ngoko, intanda yam iya kuhlala yam, I-Slave kaThixo (igama layo) liyakhathazeka. Siza kuhlala kunye nawe ngokude kunye novuyo, ekuthembekeni ngokupheleleyo komnye nomnye. Amen. "
Phinda ucebe kunye nekhanda lesibini, uze uwalicime kwaye ufihle i-cinder kwikheritta phakathi kwezinto zomlingane. Umlotha kufuneka udibaniswe nokutya okulungiselelwe iqabane.
Iqhinga ukuze umyeni wam angaphuzi
Ukuyeka imikhwa emibi , kuyimfuneko ukwenza isithethe, kodwa kufuneka kwenziwe ngasese kwabanye. Yiya ehlathini elisondeleyo uze uqokelele apho amasebe enomshanelo ukusuka kwimithi yesini somntu, umzekelo, i-oki okanye i-maple. Kubalulekile ukuqala isithethe sonke, kubalulekile ukuba akukho bantu okanye izilwanyana ekhaya. Ukulungelelanisa umshanelo wendlu ukutshabalalisa zonke iikona, kwaye ke, kunye nomgangatho. Ngeli xesha, utsho uceba lolo hlobo:
"I-Grass-mushrooms, imithi eluhlaza, eqinile kunye neqhumiso! Awukwazi ukubona ilanga legolide ukususela ngoku, ungasiphuzi iziphungu, ungagqithisi ngamagqabi. Elizweni unomthi wekhosi, kwaye umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni) akayiphuzi kwiwayini! Ephakade naphakade, Amen! "
Emva koko, qokelela yonke inkunkuma kwaye, kunye nomshanelo, uyigcine emva kwendlu. Xa i-broom ibolile, isiko siya kuqala ukusebenza.
Iqonga kumyeni, ngoko wayefuna kwaye wayemthanda
Ukuba umntu uyeka ukunqwenela umfazi wakhe, ngoko ke kunokwenzeka ukwenza isithethe esiyimvelo, apho kuyimfuneko ukuthatha ingubo yomyeni wakhe. Sebenzisa ama-panties amnyama ayenxiba loo mntu emva kwesiko. Ukuqhuba isiko kuyimfuneko ngoMsombuluko, ngoLwesithathu okanye ngoLwesihlanu ngexesha lokukhula kweNyangeni ekuphumeni kwelanga. Xa iqabane lilala, thabatha i-panties esandleni sakho sokunene, kwaye ngakwesobunxele - ikhandlela lebandla elibhekile. Yiya kwiwindow uze uthi kathathu la magama:
"Ngaphandle kwehlathi, amanzi anxibe - awanamhlaba, kodwa ingaphakathi lomfazi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi lwaloo manzi kukho isiqithi, kwaye kwisiqithi insika ayiguquki, iphakame ukuya phezulu. Ilanga laphuma likhanya. Masibe ngumthi womkhonzi kaThixo (igama) liphinde libuhlungu, umhlophe wam uphakamisa umzimba wam omhlophe. Amagama - vula ukhiye. "
Emva koko, mnqamlezo, umanga uze ucime ikhandlela. Beka ilinen kumyeni wakho ukuze ngokuqinisekileyo uyayibeka. Kanye emva koko, isiko siya kuqala ukusebenza.
Iqhinga ukuze indoda ingashiyi
Kubalulekile ukuthatha iintambo ezimbini ezifanayo kunye nokuzibeka emngceleni phantsi kombhoxo onqabileyo. Kubalulekile ukuba ayibonakali. Bese uthi la magama:
"Unokuwela njani umnqamlezo,
Ngoko uya kuhamba, ngoko uza kuza.
E gameni likaBawo noNyana kunye noMoya oyiNgcwele. Amen. "