Umhla wokuzalwa kaMama uhlala eholide ekhethekileyo. Kwaye xa sibhekene nesibhiyozo siva ukuba akayidingi nto, ngokwenene, kunjalo. Isipho esihle kakhulu senhliziyo yakhe enobubele nentliziyo kukufudumala kweentlanganiso kwiintsapho ezinobungane kunye nabantwana bakhe abathandayo kunye nabazukulu.
Kodwa, nantoni na, siya kusilungiselela isipho sokuqala iminyaka engama-60. Iintlobo zeentyatyambo ezinqwenela umama azixoxwa ngazo. Kanye kunye nezimbali, njengamangalisa, siza kumnika into encinane ephuphayo ixesha elide.
Yintoni enokukunika umama isikhumbuzo?
Kukulungele ukubuza umama wakho ngaphambili malunga noko aphuphayo. Njengokuba ngaba ngengozi baqale ukuthetha ngezinto ezithandayo. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, uya kufunda into eyayingakhange ikhunjulwe. Njengomthetho, izalamane zibuthana ngenxa yesiganeko. Yaye ukuba uMama wayedla ubomi bakhe bonke bephupha uhlobo oluthile lokufumana umntu ongenakuyenza yedwa, khulisa nezihlobo ukuba zenze isipho kumama ngonyaka wama-60 kunye kunye.
Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo sithenga izipho ngokubhekiselele kwizinto zokuzilibazisa. Isipho somfazi kwixesha lokuzalwa kwakhe elingama-60 linokubonakala ngathi lifana nekhishini elitsha. Abafazi bezoqoqosho ngezinye iinkcukacha baxhamla imali yokuthenga izixhobo zombane ezifunekayo ekhitshini, ezifana ne- multivark , i-steamer okanye umenzi wesonka, enokubanceda kakhulu umsebenzi wabasetyhini. Okanye mhlawumbi kufuneka aguqule i-TV endala ixesha elide okanye athenge itekisi yayo yekhitshi?
Abaninzi abafazi bathanda izambatho zisuka ebutsheni. Ukuba unyoko ungowombolo yabo, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuyela ngegolide okanye ngesilivere gizmo.
Okwangoku, iteknoloji yekhompyuter iye yaphucula ikhono lomntu ukufunda nokuthetha. Ngoko ke, ukukhumbula iminyaka engama-60 yomfazi wesipho esinjalo, njengepilisi , kuya kusebenza ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukukhethwa kwezipho kungapheli. Musa ukulibala ngesipho sesibonakaliso okanye izatifikethi ezihlobene nokubuyiselwa kwezempilo. Umama unakekela abantwana ngokuphila kwakhe. Ngoko ke, uhambo oluya kwindlu yokuhlengahlengiswa okanye i-dispensary apho angaphathwa khona, kholelwa mna, kuya kukhunjulwa kuye ngonaphakade. Kufanelekile ukucinga malunga nendlela yokugxininisa ekutyelele inkcenkceshe ebiza iindleko, uqhube ikhosi yokuzihlaziya okanye ezinye iinkqubo. Kukho nawuphi na, akufuneki ukuba unike izilwanyana ngaphandle kwemvume engabongeza kuyo ingxaki. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukunika isipho kumama iminyaka engama-60 yayimnandi kwaye iluncedo.