Isipho kwinkwenkwe iminyaka engama-14

Nika kunzima kakhulu ukunika izipho kubantwana abaselula, kuba itekisi ayifanelekanga, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kunye nomdala ingaba yinto engabonakaliyo. Isipho somfana oseminyakeni engama-14 kufuneka sikhethwe ngqalelo ekhethekileyo, kuba kulo nyaka sele eqonda indlela yakhe yesintu kwaye iphendula ngokukhawuleza kuyo nayiphi na imbonakalo yemoya kuye, "njengento encinci."

Isipho sosuku lokuzalwa lwesi-14: umele ukhethe ntoni?

Isipho somfana oneminyaka eyi-14 singaboniswa:

1. Kuthetha ukunyamekelwa kwesikhumba ebusweni, umzimba kunye neenwele, iimpahla ezilungileyo, eziya kumvumela ukuba abukeke kakuhle, zibukele yena kwaye, ngenxa yoko, njengamantombazana. Oku kudala kubaluleke kakhulu. Impahla kufuneka ifane nomfanekiso wayo, ukhetho, kodwa alufumaneki ukuze uzame ukutshintsha isitala sayo (kuba abanye abazali basebenzisa le ndlela).
2. Iiyure, ifowuni, ikhompyutha kunye nezinye izixhobo zobuchwepheshe eziyimfuneko, nto leyo umntwana engasenayo. Unokuzibuza kwangaphambili into enyanzelekile yinkwenkwe, okanye ukhethe isipho kunye naye.
3. Konke okuyimfuneko ekufundeni, ukuba umntu uyathanda kwaye ufuna ukufunda. Ingaba isichazi-magama esihle, incwadi efanelekileyo.
4. Ifenitshala ( ibhedi , idesksi entsha, isafa kwigumbi).
5. Izixhobo zemidlalo, ukuba ziyimfuneko (ibhola, iiglavu, iikhati, iifom, njl).
6. Yonke into inkwenkwe idinga ukuzonwabisa kwayo.

Ukongezelela, izipho "ezihlakaniphile" , ezahlukileyo kwimvelaphi kwaye ezingekho phantsi, zilungile. Umzekelo, ibhola ekwenzeni izigqibo, i-cube yeRubik, iwashi yezinto eziphilayo ezisebenza emanzini.

Kule minyaka, abafana banako ukuqonda izipho ezingabonakaliyo, ngokukodwa xa zivela ngabahlobo babo, ngoxa abazali bahlala bekulindele into encedo, eyincedo kunye nexabiso.