Ukukhetha isipho intombazana ngokuqinisekileyo ngumsebenzi onzima. Akuninzi abantu abanokujamelana nayo ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba ngobunzima awuyi kuqiqa, iphunga liya kukhetha ngokungalunganga. Akukho ziphephelo ezikhoyo apha, njengoko kungekho ziintombi ezifanayo. Singakwazi kuphela ukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza intombazana isipho sokuqala, kwaye yeyiphi into efanelekayo kwintanda yakho, iphezulu kuwe.
Unendlela ezininzi: uthenge into engavamile, yenza isipho ngezandla zakho okanye uthenge isipho esiqhelekileyo, kodwa unomdla ukuwubonisa. Okanye unokudibanisa ezi zikhetho.
Thenga isipho sokuqala - akukho ngxaki. Kwi-Intanethi kukho inani elikhulu lezayithi ezibonelela ngezipho ezingaqhelekanga kuzo zonke iziganeko kunye neendidi ezahlukeneyo zamanani. Ukuxhaswa kweentengiso ze-intanethi kuyamangalisa ngokuhlukahlukileyo kwayo: iibrale kunye neepompi zekhompyutheni ngendlela yesimo senhliziyo, izibane zothando kunye nokunye okuninzi. Ukuba ixesha liphela kwaye lilinde kude kube ngumyalelo, akukho xesha-jonga kwiivenkile ze-flash drive engacwangciswanga eyenziwe, ifreyimu yezithombe zedijithali, iwashi lothando kunye nezinto ezifana; lungile, ukhetho lukhulu kakhulu ngoku.
Enye inketho isitifiketi sesipho se-fashion boutique okanye i-perfume, okanye bhetele-i-salon enobuhle. Awuqiniseki, isipho esinjalo siya ku kholisa nayiphi na intombazana, kuba uya kumnika ithuba lokukhetha yonke into ayithandayo, ukunciphisa kuphela imali.
Isipho sokuqala kwintombazana ngezandla zabo
Faka kwisipho sakho umsebenzi omncinci, umcabango kunye nothando, kwaye kuya kukhunjulwa ngumthandwa wakho ixesha elide. Kakade, akubona wonke umntu onokunquma umthi okanye ukugcoba amathoyizi athobileyo, ngoko icebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza isipho sokuqala kwintombazana ethandekayo kuya kuba lula, nabani na onokumangalisa.
Umlenze wephupha elimnandi. Bhala kwi-pillow okanye isethi semibhozo yelineni ekhethekileyo yokwakheka kwothando, ukuncoma, ukuthanda, ukuthatha iintliziyo, iintyatyambo, iingelosi.
Bulisa uthando. Ngaphakathi kwibhaluni enkulu, vuthela i-sparkle, i-confetti, iphakame i-petals, uyibeke nge-helium kwaye uyibophe ngebhebhoni enhle. Kwibhaluni, bhala "Ndiyithandayo!" Okanye into enomdla. Yifaka kwintombazana ngexesha lokuhamba, ize iqhube ingqalelo xa iyakuthwala.
I-albhamu yezikhumbuzo. Isipho esinjalo sokuqala singaboniswa kwintombazana ngokugubha ulwalamano lwakho. Hlanganisa yonke into ehambelana nebali lakho: iziqwenga, amathikithi e-movie, ii-postcards, i-chocolate-wrappers, iintyatyambo ezomileyo. Glue konke kumaphepha e-albhamu enhle, ngexesha lokuvuma kunye neenqwenela, ukuhlobisa ngemidwebo.
Indlela yokubonisa isipho intombazana?
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, iingcebiso ezimbalwa malunga nendlela yokunika isipho sakho kakuhle.
Oku kunokwenziwa, umzekelo, ngokulungiselela ukuthanda intombi yakhe. Ekuseni kufuphi nombhede wakhe, faka iposikhadi ngesivumelwano, uvuyiswe kunye nesicatshulwa, njengokuthi "hamba amanyathelo asibhozo ngakwesobunxele." Kule ndawo, shiya isimanga kuye (i-tsholetele okanye indebe yekhofi) kunye ne-pointer elandelayo.
Isipho esincinci sinokupakishwa kwiibhokisi eziliqela, ezizidalwa kwelinye, njengezidoli zokuhlamba. Kulo lonke ibhokisi eliphakathi ungayifaka nayiphi na into encinci yokuyikhupha yayiyolonwabo.
Enye indlela, indlela yokunikela isipho sokuqala kwintombazana. Ncoma ngokukhawuleza iqanda elithi "Ukutshatyalaliswa kwe-Kinder" kwaye ufake indawo yokudlala kunye nesipho sakho, umzekelo, i-ringlet. Emva koko, konke okufanayo, hla nganisa ngokucophelela. Ngethuba lokuhamba, thengani intombazana "Ukumangalisa umdlalo" kwivenkile uze uyibuyisele yona. Kuya kuba yintlonelo ngokwenene, kungekhona "inceba".