Ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo kuhlala kuyintlekele, ehamba kunye neinyembezi nokuxinezeleka. Iingcamango ezifana necebo elifanayo liye zishiye emva kokuvakalelwa okungathandekiyo. Ukufumanisa ukuba ufuna ukulungiselela iingxaki okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, lo uluvo olungileyo, kuyimfuneko ukusebenzisa ukutolika okucetywayo.
Kutheni iphupha lokufa komhlobo?
Iincwadi ezininzi eziphuphayo zithi iphupha elinjalo lithatha ulwazi olubi. Kodwa ukufa kukubonakalisa ukutshintsha nokuhlaziya. Kungekudala, ebomini bakho, kukho utshintsho omele ulwamkele. Ngenxa yoko, uza kufumana amava abalulekileyo aza kuza ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha elizayo. Kwanokufa komhlobo ephupheni kungabonwa ukuba uxwayiswe ukuba umntu osondele kuwe unengxaki kwaye ufuna uncedo. Kukho nolwazi lokuba loo maphupha asukuba ngumthombo wokukhungatheka ngenxa yento eyenzekayo.
Ukuzibulala komhlobo kukubonakalisa ukuba kungekudala uza kuvuya kakhulu malunga nesiganeko okanye isiganeko. Ukuze uphuphe ukufa komhlobo, ngoko, ngokwenene, unokudumala okukhulu, oku kungakhokelela ekudakaleni . Ukuba ufunda kumnye umntu malunga nokufa komhlobo - oku kuyisixwayiso esivela kuye nangobomi bokwenene umntu kufuneka alindele iindaba ezimbi.
Ukutolika kwephupha, ukufa komhlobo ephupheni, ukutolika ngokucacileyo. Ngokomzekelo, kukho ulwazi lokuba iphupha elinjalo liwuphawu lokuba uya kuzifumana kwimeko enzima, kwaye awuyi kukwazi ukuphuma kuyo. Ngaloo mbono ubusuku bungabonakalisa isenzo sokukhawuleza esiya kuba nemiphumo ebalulekileyo. Ukubona ukufa komhlobo kwiphupha kuthetha ukuba ngokukhawuleza uza kufunda kuye kwiindaba ezimbi ezivela kuye. Ukutolika okufanayo kukuphupha apho ulivile ilizwi lomhlobo ofileyo. Ukufa komhlobo kubonisa ubomi obunexesha elide nolonwabileyo.