Kukholelwa ukuba amaphupha abandakanya abantwana - enye yezona ziqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, akuphosakeleyo ukuthetha ngokungagqibekanga ukuba bahlala bebonisa into entle. Yonke into incike kwiinkcukacha kunye nesiqhelo sokulala. Umzekelo, ukuqonda ukuba baninzi abantwana abaphuphayo, unokhumbula kuphela ukuba abantwana bebaneminyaka engakanani, indlela abaziphatha ngayo, kwenzeka ntoni kubo, njl.
Ziziphi izinto ezininzi abantwana abaphuphayo malunga nokutolika okuqhelekileyo
Into enhle yiphupha ngokuphathelele abantwana abonwabileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba ebomini bakho kuza kuza ixesha elide lokuchuma nokuchuma. Kwaye mhlawumbi uya kwongezwa kwintsapho . Into eyona nto kukuba kwiqela labantwana akukho ukukhala okanye abantwana abagulayo. Oku kunokubonakalisa ukugula komntwana wakho, nangona kunjalo, akunjalo. Ngako oko kunengqiqo kwakhona ukuba ibonise loo mpilo. Ingaba loo phupha ibonisa ukubonakala kwemimiselo oyakuza kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Ukubona ephupheni abantwana abaninzi abalulela izandla zabo, kuthetha ukuthandana kunye nezihlobo okanye osebenza nabo. Kungekudala baza kuqala ukukhangela uluntu, banike uncedo. Kwaye kusenokuba kunokwenzeka ukuba abantu abatsha bamnandi.
Kutheni iphupha labantwana abaninzi beeminyaka ezahlukeneyo?
Ukuba ubandakanyeka emdlalweni womntwana ephupheni, apho abantwana bamaxesha ahlukeneyo bathatha inxaxheba, ngoko kufuneka ulindele inhlanhla kuyo yonke imizamo yakho. Ukuphupha abantwana abaninzi abancinci i-good omen, ethembisa ukufumana inzuzo engalindelekanga. Ukuba ziintsana okanye iintsana - ukufumana ngandlela-thile iindaba, zinokwenzeka ukuba zilungile. Abo babone abaninzi abantwana abasebuthongweni babo babele kulindeleke ukuba bafumane uncedo. Ukuba ephupheni bafunda okanye benza umsebenzi othile onomsebenzi, ngokukhawuleza uya kuba nako ukukrazula ingxaki ekwahluphayo kwaye ufezekise injongo ethile .