Ukulahleka kweenwele kunye nemigca akuphela nje iphupha, kodwa ubomi bemihla ngemihla kuyinto engathandekiyo. Ukuze uqonde ukuba lithini iphupha, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha ezisisiseko.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukwenza iinwele ngeentshizi?
Phantse zonke iincwadi zephupha ziya guqulwa kweli qhinga libonisa ilahleko kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zeengxaki. Iibhokhwe zeenwele ziwela ephupheni ngehora lokunciphisa amandla okuphila. Enye into enjalo ingabonakaliswa kweengxaki zemali. Siza kufumanisa ukuba ziphi iindondo zeenwele ezimpunga ziphuma ngeempawu zibonisa ukuba kungekudala kuya kubakho ukukhumbula iingxaki kunye neengxaki ezidlulileyo. Ukubona ukuba iinwele ziwela njani emigodini evela komnye umntu kuthetha ukuba ulindele iingxaki ezinokuchaphazela iingxaki ezahlukeneyo zobomi. Umbono ebusuku, apho izinwele zeenyawo ziphuma kumntwana, luphawu olulungileyo, olubonisa impumelelo kummandla wezemali. Ukuba iinwele zawela kubantu abaninzi, kuthetha ukuba umphuphi ulindele ukuhlazeka. Ukulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo kweenwele ephupheni kukubonisa ukuba kukho amava ngokubonakala kwawo.
Kutheni le ntombazana ilahlekelwa yintlungu?
Ngesondo esifanelekileyo, eli phupha libonisa ukuvela kweengxaki zeentsapho, kwaye kukho ukuphakama okukhulu kweengxabano malunga nokungathembeki komlingane. Intombazana ekhulelwe, ukulahlekelwa yintlungu ephupheni kuyinconywa ukuba kungcono ukulawula impilo yakho. Umbono ebusuku, malunga nemigca ewayo, ukuba amantombazana angatshatanga abe ngumnqophiso wokufuna ukuguqula ubomi babo. Kwanjalo iphupha elinjalo lingahunyushwa kwaye litshintshwe kakuhle: mhlawumbi ngoku kukho ukukhupha iingcamango nezenzo zobuwula. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha, aphupha amaphupha okulahleka kweenwele, ukutolika, njenge-harbinger yokuhlukana kumntu othandekayo.