Umntu ngamnye ngesimo sakhe sengqondo kumaphupha: umntu ngokukhawuleza ukhohlwe oko akubonayo, kwaye umntu uzama ukuqonda ephupheni intsingiselo engcwele kunye neempawu eziyimfihlo. Ukukholelwa kuyo okanye ayikho into eyimfihlo kumntu wonke. Ukuba unomdla kumbuzo weendwendwe eziphuphayo, kufuneka ukhumbule iinkcukacha ezininzi ngokunokwenzeka ukuchazwa okuchanekileyo.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba isivakashi siza kumbandela, ke oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu malunga noko kwenzekayo. Izivakashi endlwini ziphupha ngeengxaki ezincinane kunye neemeko ezimbi - qaphela. Kwakhona, indwendwe endlwini yakho kuthetha intshiseko, umsindo kunye nenzondo yabantu abakujikelezile. Mhlawumbi unesizungu. Iindwendwe ezingavunywanga ziphupha ukuxabana nomntu othandekayo ngenxa yomona, ukusuka ekuqaleni. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukugxekisa abanye okanye umzamo uluntu ukuba usebenzise uxinzelelo kuwe.
Kutheni ujonge malunga nokuseta itafile yeendwendwe?
Ukuhlobisa ngokufanelekileyo kunye nokulungelelaniswa kokufika kweendwendwe iitheyibhile izithembisa ukutshintsha ubomi ubomi. Ubuthongo obuhle, ngakumbi ukuba itafile ephuka ngokutya kuthetha ubabalo lukaThixo. Indlu iya kuba "indebe epheleleyo". Ukuba intombazana ibona ephupheni, indlela efihla ngayo itafile - oku kuthetha ukuhlangana nabantu abasondeleyo. Ephupheni, ulindele ukufika kwezihlobo? Mhlawumbi omnye wabo ufuna ukukhuselwa kunye nenkxaso yakho.
Ncedisa abantu ukuba babone itafile ehlanganiswe ngephupha, kuthetha ukukhula komsebenzi kunye nempumelelo kwimicimbi yezobugcisa. Yonke imithwalo izakuzaliseka kwaye yenziwe ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba zikhona iintyatyambo etafileni, zihamba phambili ngobomi bomtshato obonwabileyo. Itafile ngaphandle kweetafile ithembisa ininzi enkulu engalindelekanga.
Kutheni baninzi iindwendwe endlwini ephuphayo?
Iindwendwe ezininzi endlwini ziphupha malunga nohambo olude oluzayo, kunye nephupha elinjalo liyinto yokukhwabanisa . Omnye uya kuqala ukuchitha iingxolo ezimbi malunga nobomi bakho.