Uninzi lwabantu bakholelwa ukuba amaphupha ngumyalezo ovela phezulu, isilumkiso. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo abantu bafumene intsingiselo yamaphupha. Namhlanje isabalulekile kwaye ifuna ukujonga kwikamva. Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba enye iphupha ingaba nokutolika amaninzi. Ngokomzekelo, xa uguqulela iphupha ngomtshato , kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphupha intombazana esatshatileyo okanye kungenjalo, iphupha ngomtshato wakhe okanye ngomntu ongaqhelekanga kunye nokunye. Kufanelekile ukuqwalasela umbuzo wendlela umtshato ongaqhelekanga wentombazana engatshatanga.
Kutheni intombazana iphupha ngomtshato womnye?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaphupha omtshato womnye ukuba kungekudala intombazana iya kudibana nomhlobo omdala okanye umnqweno wakhe omnqweno uya kuzaliseka. Kodwa yintoni na iphupha lomtshato wesinye somfazi ongatshatanga okanye oqhawule umtshato, abaninzi baya kubuza, kodwa kwinto yokuba kungekudala kuya kuba neqabane elinesifo esithandanayo. Ukuba loo mphupha ibonwe ngumfazi otshatileyo uyintambo yokubhiyozela intsapho.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa umtshato womnye uphupha?
Ngokutsho kwamabango encwadi yeliphu lemihla yamaphupha, loo phupha inomxholo obalulekileyo-isisombululo seengxaki, kuya kwenzeka ukuba uphume kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo. Kwaye uphaphazelani ngomtshato ongaqhelekanga, xa usenxalenye yomyeni - othandekayo, kunye nxalenye yomtshakazi-enye ingxabano yowesifazane, ingxabano .
Yile shishini lomntu wonke ukukholelwa kwiincwadi zephupha okanye kungekhona, kodwa zihlanganiswa ngamava aqokelelwe kulo nyaka. Siyabonga kubatoliki, wonke umntu unethuba lokubonakalisa ikhefu lokufihla nokuqonda oko kuza kulindeleke. Kodwa, ukuba incwadi yephupha ibonisa iphupha elibi, ke ungacasuli, kungcono, okokuqala, ukuhlalutya iimeko zobomi obonwabisayo. Mhlawumbi ingqondo engenangqondo, ngoko, izama ukudlulisa indlela yokuxazulula ingxaki ekhoyo.