Kuthiwa ukuba indlela ebonwa ngephupha ibonakalisa ubomi bethu, ngoko ke, ukucacisa ngokuchanekileyo iphupha elinjalo, zonke iinkcukacha maziqwalaselwe. Inendlela ingaba bubanzi okanye iminyene, ende kunye nefutshane, ngeemigodi kunye namatye okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, isicacile kwaye ihlambulukile, njl., Konke oku kunquma ukuchazwa kobuthongo. Ngoku makhe sijonge ngakumbi malunga neliphi iphupha, kwaye yiyiphi iphupha enokukuxelela.
Kutheni ucinga ngeendlela?
Indlela ebonwe ephupheni inokuxelela into eninzi malunga nomntu, inokuxelela into eninzi, ilumkise kakhulu ngezinto, into eyona nto kukukuchaza ngokucacileyo intsingiselo yobuthongo. Umzekelo, ukuba sithetha malunga nendlela endala ephuphayo, ngokuqhelekileyo ithetha ubomi obudlulileyo kunye nobomi. Icandelo lomzila oya kumgama lithetha ubomi besikhathi esizayo, apha ufanele ubeke ingqalelo kwindlela ekhoyo, ukuba kulungile kwaye kulungile, ngoko uya kuba novuyo ubomi, ukuba kukho imingxuma kunye nezitenxo ezininzi, kuya kuba nobunzima endleleni yakho. Ukuba indlela ende ekhokelela ekukhuphukeni, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ufanele "ukunyuka" kwinqanaba lomsebenzi, kunokwenzeka ukuphucula imeko yakho yemali, okanye imeko yakho yokomoya iya kuvuka. Ukuba umendo omude uhambela entabeni, unentshonalanga okanye ihleleleke, ngoko iphupha elinjalo libonisa inkxalabo yeemeko zakho, mhlawumbi iingxaki emsebenzini , ukungonakaliswa kwimeko yemali, "ukuncipha" kunye nemimoya yomoya kunye nolwalamandla kulindeleke. Ukuba ubona indlela ehamba phambili, ehamba phambili iya kude, ngoko kufuneka ulungiselele iingxaki kunye nobunzima obungalindelekanga, kwaye iingxaki zingakhathaza ixesha elide.
Kutheni ndiphupha ngendlela engcolileyo?
Xa ubona indlela engcolileyo okanye emnyama ephupheni, kufuneka ulungele ukufikelela iingxaki ezinkulu, ukudideka, ukulahleka. Ukungcola kwindlela kuthetha ukuba ngephutha lakho unokulahlekelwa ngumhlobo wabantu abathandekayo, okanye uya "kudideka" ngokungathandabuzeki nokwesaba kwaye wenze iimpazamo ezikhokelela kwimiphumo emibi. Ukuba ubona igazi endleleni, ngoko kufuneka ucinge ngeemeko zakho zengqondo, kufuneka uthathe ikhefu kwishishini kwaye ukhulule kancane. Ukuba ephupheni uhamba endleleni evulekileyo, ke kukho abantu abakuzungezile abafuna ukukubi, umona nokuzama ukulimaza. Indlela evulekileyo ithi kwakhona uya kuba uzama ukubandakanyeka kwishishini "elingcolileyo".
Iphupha apho indlela ilungiswa ngayo ibonisa ukuba ufuna ukuhlaziywa izicwangciso zakho kwaye utshintshe into ethile, ngaphandle koko uya kudaniswa nento oyenzile.
Iyiphi indlela endala ephupha ngayo?
Ukuba uphupha kwendlela ende, ngoko iminqweno yakho ayiyi kuzaliseka kungekudala, ngoko oko ucebayo kuyakuhlehliswa. Ukuba indlela engalinganiyo, kunye nemingxuma kunye ne-bumps, ize ifinyelele umnqweno ayiyi kuba lula nangona emva kwexesha elide, kuya kufuneka usebenze nzima ukufumana oko ufuna. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba indlela iphakamileyo kunye nenqanaba, makungabikho kungekudala, kodwa izicwangciso zakho ziya kugqitywa ekugqibeleni. Ukuba kwindlela eninzi yamanzi, iifuddles, ngoko kwixa elizayo ulindele iingxaki zemihla ngemihla.
Kutheni uphupha malunga nesitimela?
Iphupha apho indlela esesitimeleni iphupha inezoxabiso ezilungileyo nezimbi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba usesitimeleni eneemoto ezininzi, okanye
Kwintombazana engatshatanga, indlela esetratweni ithetha i-ambulensi, apho iya kudibana nayo.
Ukuba sithetha malunga nendlela eya ekhaya ephuphayo, kwaye ayinandaba nomzila, ngemoto, okanye ngeenyawo, kufuneka kuthiwa ngumqondiso wokuzisola ngezenzo eziye zabangela ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kunye nomthandayo, kodwa kusekho ithuba lokululungisa.