Ngokwekhalenda ye-Julian yonke imihla yokutshintshwa kweeyure ezingama-6, kwaye ukuphakamisa impazamo, unyaka wokuqhawuliswa kwaziswa, apho iintsuku ezingama-366. Ngaloo ndlela, yonke iminyaka emine ungabona ukubonakala komhla omtsha kwikhalenda-ngoFebruwari 29. Kukho imiqondiso emininzi enxulumene neli xesha, umzekelo, abaninzi banomdla wokubhaptiza umntwana ngomnyaka wokuqhawula, ukutshata nokuthatha amanye amanyathelo athatha uxanduva. Kubalulekile ukuyiqonda esi sihloko ukuze uqonde ukuba kuyafaneleka yini ukwesaba iinkolelo ezikhoyo okanye zonke ezi ziphumo.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ngomnyaka weqhosha?
Iintsapho ezininzi zicinga ukuba kuyafaneleka ukuthatha inyathelo elinjalo kwixesha elifanelekileyo okanye kungcono ukulinda de kunyaka ozayo. Abaxolisi baqwalasela impawu kuphela. Indoda ngokwemvelo yakhe, xa engakwazi ukunika inkcazelo engqiqweni kuyo nayiphi na into, ivela kunye noloyiko oluneenkcukacha, iimpepha, njl. Yingakho, ukuba uqhuba uphando phakathi kwabantu malunga nokubhaptizwa komntwana kunyaka wokunyuka, unokufumana ezininzi izimpendulo ezahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha. Omnye uthi eli xesha alibi nelungelo lokuziphatha kwenkqubo kunye nokuba umntwana unokufumana iingxaki ezininzi ebomini bakhe. Kukho iinguqulelo ezifunekayo ukuba zineentombi ezine. Kukho uluvo lokuba amalungu omzimba kuphela angabhaptiza umntwana ngomnyaka weqhosha, umzekelo, umzalwana, udade, uyise, njl. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba konke oku kungenangqondo, kodwa kukho abo bagcina yonke imiqondiso, ekhokelela kwiingxaki ezininzi.
Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni ungeke ubhaptize umntwana ngomnyaka wokuqhawula, kufuneka ukwazi icawa. Kwi-Orthodoxy, akunakwenzeka ukufumana nayiphi na imingcipheko malunga nokuziphatha kwemitshato, imitshato, kakuhle, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, ubhaptizo. Zonke izithethe ziqhutshwa ngokwemiqathango ekhoyo ngaphandle kwemimiselo. Abefundisi bathi akukho nto enjengomnyaka wokunyuka ebandleni. Ngenxa yoko kunokugqitywa ukuba xa umntu ekholelwa kuThixo , ngoko nayiphi na imiqondiso emele ayenze yona ayiyi kuba isizathu sokushiya i-christenings ngonyaka we-leap.
Kuyakwazi ukuqokelela konke oku ngasentla kwaye ugqibe ukuba wonke umntu unelungelo lokuzikhethela ukuba uyakholelwa kwiimpawu okanye ayikho, kwaye xa kubalulekile ukubhaptiza umntwana wakho kuphela kubazali.
Yintoni eya kuba ngumntwana ozalwe kunyaka?
Kuya kuba lunomdla ukungazi kuphela ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhaptize umntwana ngomnyaka wokuqhawula, kodwa nokuba luhlobo luni lomntwana ozalwe ngeli xesha liya kuba. Kule akhawunti, kukho iindidi ezahlukileyo, umzekelo, abanye bakholelwa ukuba abantwana abanjalo bayabetha iingxaki ezahlukeneyo, ngelixa abanye bathi banokwenza imilingo. Kuba ixesha elide abantu baqinisekisiwe ukuba abantu abazalwa ngonyaka ogqithiseleyo bafuna ukuzonwabisa kunye nenhlanhla. Kukho uluvo lokuba abo bazalwa ngeli xesha banamathuba amaninzi okuphumelela ebomini.
Abantwana abazalelwa ngomhla wokugqibela wobusika, oko kukuthi, ngoFebhuwari 29, babecatshangelwa ukuba babecala kuqala.
Iimbono zamanqaku ezikhoyo zanamhlanje nazo zithetha ngamakhono abantwana abazalwa kunyaka. Baqinisekisa ukuba abantu abanjalo beenkokeli ebomini, ngoko banokufezekisa lula zonke iinjongo zobomi. Baye banetalente kwaye banengqondo kakhulu, kodwa ngenxa yokungabi nokuqeqeshwa kwabo, bajamelana neengxaki ezahlukeneyo ebomini. Kukwafanelekile ukuphawula ulwazi lwabo oluphuculweyo. Abantwana abaninzi abazalwa ngonyaka ogqithiseleyo bangaba ngabahlakaniphileyo, kodwa ngenxa yobuvila, italente ayinakuguqulwa.