Amantombazana amaninzi, ukuze athole indoda ayithandayo, anqwenele ukuthabatha umlingo aze athande ukuthanda . Abantu abaninzi banqunywe yintlawulo ephezulu kwiiNkundla eziPhakamileyo, ezibonakalisa ukubonakala kweengxaki ezininzi. Konke oku kunqumanisa ukubaluleka kwesihloko - njani ngaphandle kwemiphumo yokutshixa indoda. Ukuze ungesabi ukuqikelela, kuyimfuneko ukuphendukela kumlingo omhlophe uncedo, olungenayo imiphumo emibi. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba umnyanzela umthande umntu aze enze amasiko ahambelana nomntu ovakalelwa ngenceba. Lo ngumphambili omkhulu phakathi kwamasiko omnyama nomhlophe.
Abasetyhini abaninzi banomdla kwindlela yokutshiza umntu otshatileyo ngaphandle kwemiphumo. Kule meko, ulwazi luya kudanisa, kuba umlingo omhlophe awukwazi ukuxhasa ukutshatyalaliswa kwentsapho kwaye uqhuba isithethe ngaphandle kokuhlawula oko kwenziweyo akuyi kusebenza. Inye kuphela - ukuba umntu ngokwakhe ufuna ukushiya intsapho kwaye ulungele ukuqhawula umtshato.
Indlela yokutshiza umntu othandekayo kwisithombe?
Ukusebenzisa amasiko omlingo omhlophe, awukwazi ukwandisa kuphela iimvakalelo zento yokudumisa, kodwa ukhuthaze ukuba wenze ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye ukhusele ubuhlobo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo. Kubalulekile ukusho ukuba umlingo ngumncedisi kuphela ekuphumezeni injongo kwaye konke kusezandleni zowesifazane.
Inketho elula, indlela yokutshintsha umntu ekude kuyindlela yokusebenzisa ifoto yakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba umfanekiso uphelele ngokutsha, kuba uqukethe amandla amaninzi. Beka isithombe phambi kwakho uze usigubungele ngezandla zakho. Khawucinge ngendlela amandla kunye nothando ezidlulayo kuwe ukuya kufotshane. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba umfanekiso ukhangeleke kwaye uyinyani. Emva koko funda la magama:
"Inkosi eyinyaniso, inceku (igama) ayikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesithunzi sayo, inqwenela, inceku yakho (igama) ayiyi kunqoba. Hamba, ukhubeke, ngenxa yentlungu. Njenga ilanga esibhakabhakeni, ngoko unami, inceku yamakhoboka (igama). "
Isithethe kufuneka siphindwe kathathu ngosuku: kusasa, kusihlwa kunye nobusuku. Kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde isalathisi kude kube yinjongo.
Indlela yokutshintshela umntu ekhaya ngekhandlela?
Ukwenza isithethe, udinga ikhandlela yombala obomvu, ekubeni lo mbala uthathwa njengowona mnye ekuthandeni umlingo. Usalungiselela umfanekiso wekhethiweyo. Thatha iphepha kunye nokubhala kuyo yonke into ocinga ngayo ngendoda ekhethiweyo, indlela afanele ayenze ngayo, into okulindele kwixesha elizayo, njl. Emva koko uyiphinde, uyibeke emlilweni obomvu uze uyibambe phezu komfanekiso. Emva koko, zithi uceba lolo hlobo:
"Yintoni eya kudlula intloko yakhe-iya kuwela kuye. Njengoko ilangabi livutha emva kwakho - intliziyo yenceku ethembekileyo (igama) iya kuphuma. "
Ukusebenzisa ukubonakala kwipelo
Ukuba unomdla wendlela yokutshintshisa indoda esatshatileyo, ungayisebenzisa le ndlela. Khumbula ukuba into yokubonga kufanele ibe ilungele ukushiya intsapho. Ubuhlobo obusondeleyo ukuthatha indoda abuvunyelwe ngumlingo omhlophe. Kucetyiswa ukuba uqale ukubonwa phambi kokulala, ulala embhedeni. Hlalani kwindawo ekhululekile kwaye uzame ukuphumla, kulo mzekelo ukucamngca kuhle. Emva koko zama
Ukuba konke kwenziwe ngokuchanekileyo, ngokukhawuleza loo mntu uya kuba neengcamango ngawe, kwaye uya kukhangela kakhulu iintlanganiso. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba oku kuza kwenzeka ngokwemvelo, kwaye akukho mntu uya kucinga ngokusebenzisa umlingo. Konke oku kubangelwa kukuba imikhosi yokukhanya iyabandakanyeka, kuba kumatshini omnyama yonke into ijikeleze.