Uyakhumbula i heroine yomsebenzi omnye wodumo owaziwayo owamisela umlingiswa womntu ezindlebeni zakhe? Nakhu, ke ke, le meko ihlukile kwaye uyamangaliswa, kodwa kukho ukudibanisa phakathi kobunzima bomlomo kunye nomlingiswa. Hayi, ke, ukuba intombazana iguqule umlomo wakhe ngeendlela zokuzithoba, ungalindelanga ukuba isimo sakhe sitshintshe nokuba. Kodwa ngokwemilo yomlomo, enikezwa ngokwemvelo, ukuchaza indlela ezithile iimpawu zokuziphatha, kunye neendlela ezithile ezithile zomntu womntu, zinokwenzeka.
Izindebe zomlomo
Ukunqunywa kohlobo lomntu emlonyeni luqala ngomlomo womnini ngomnsalo. Abathwali bomlomo oqhelekileyo bavame ukwanda kobutyebi. Mhlawumbi yimi kutheni imilomo yamakhosikazi ayimnandi kakhulu kubantu. Kwaye abanikazi bemilomo epheleleyo bayayithanda kakhulu ihlabathi elijikelezayo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo bahlala behlala benyanisekileyo, kwaye abalahlekelwa yimpembelelo kwabanye. Kwakhona intombazana enomlomo okhuphayo ayiyi kuba yingxaki yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho. Abafazi abanjalo banako ukunqwenela okufanayo ukunyuka kwimicimbi yothando, banikezele umsebenzi wabo ozithandayo okanye umama.
Umlomo wakho
Eminye, imilenze emincinci isoloko ikhupha isimo esinzima somnini. Abasetyhini abanomlomo onjalo abahlali bathambekele ekuxhaseni kwiimvakalelo, ngenxa yoko banamandla kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanjalo bavaliwe, bacinwa kwiimvakalelo, kodwa awukwazi ukunqaba ukuzimela ngokuzikhandla kwakho ukufezekisa. Kula mabhinqa bafumana ama-careerist aphezulu, kuba bayazi ukuba bazalisekise njani iinjongo zabo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Umlomo ophantsi
Abantu abanomlomo ophantsi, ogcwele ngaphezu kweyona nto, bahlala bezingca kwaye bazingca. Oku kubangelwa ngumnqweno wokufumana ebomini ubunqweno obukhulu, nokuba yiyiphi inxulumene nokuthanda ubudlelwane, ukutya okanye izinto zokuzilibazisa. Kubalulekile ukuba abantu abanjalo babe ngabokuqala kuyo yonke into, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuthetha nabo kuba bajonga ingcamango yabo yokuba yedwa yinyaniso. Ngoko ke, ukuxoxisana nantoni na abantu abanjalo kuyisijeziso, ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, uzinikele ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungathathi uluvo lwabo nge-axiom.
Umlomo ophezulu
Abantu abanomlomo ophezulu ophezulu bahluke ngoxanduva lwabo, banako ukuya kwiindawo ezibalulekileyo, nangona kubonakala ngathi, kwaye akukho nto inokwenzeka. Zineengcamango zazo kwaye ziqwalasele ukuba zichanekile, kodwa ziyakwazi ukuphulaphula umxhasi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unako ukuzilimaza "ngenxa yokuphila," ngoko ubeka ingozi ekuzuzeni intshaba ebomini bakho bonke. Abasetyhini abaneemilomo enjalo babonakaliswa ngamandla angamaxhoba okudlala ngothando kunye nokutya, ngoko ke amadoda akaze awadlulele.
Ukuphakanyiswa kwamakhonkco omlomo
Ujonge le ntombazana ephakanyisiwe emlonyeni wakhe, ngokuzikhethela ufuna ukumncoma. Kwaye kuba abanini bomlomo onjalo abazange banqatshelwe uthando kunye novelwano ngabanye. Kulula ukuthetha, kwaye umlingiswa uhlala unesidima kwaye uvulekile.
Ukufaka iingcamango zomlomo
Amakhonkco ahlayo emlonyeni achukumisa ingcamango yokungahlawuli, ukungabikho kobubele bentombazana, kwaye ngoko kunye namaqabane akusoloko ehamba kakuhle. Ewe, kwaye ekunxibelelana nabantu abanjalo kunzima, mhlawumbi, ngenxa yoko, emva kokufumana umngane, abantu abafana nomntu, baya kukukhusela ngayo yonke inyaniso kungekhona inyaniso.
Kulungile kwaye kunjalo kubalulekile ukunyusa ingqalelo kumgca we-labiums kunye nokuthi zininzi kangakanani. Abanini bemilomo echazwe ngokucacileyo, ngaphezu koko, ukuba banamaqabunga kwaye banzima, baninzi banokuba ngabaphathi bezinto ezinqabileyo, ukukwazi ukugcina iimvakalelo zabo phantsi kolawulo kunye nentando engavumelekanga. Kodwa abantu bahamba emigqeni yomlomo kunye nemilomo epholileyo kwaye banobubele, bathambile, bakhawuleza kwaye banobuchule ngqo.