Ukukhuliswa komntwana unyaka

Unyaka wokuqala wobomi bomntwana unzima kakhulu, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo lona lifanelekileyo. Ngokufanayo nobusuku obunzima bokulala, obunzima kakhulu kumzimba wesifazane, kubalulekile ukubeka iliso impilo yempilo, ukondla kunye nophuhliso. Indlela yokulawula yonke into kwaye ungaphuthelwa kuzo zonke izinto ezincinane zokukhuliswa komntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-1 ubudala? Siza kuthetha ngale nto kwimpahla yethu yanamhlanje.

Ukukhuliswa kwabantwana ngomnyaka o-1

Abazali abaninzi abatsha bacinga ukuba nangona umntwana esincinane, akaqondi nto kwaye akayiqondi. Oku kukukhohlisa okunzulu. Ingqondo yengqondo yomntwana ekukhuliseni unyaka kufuneka isekelwe ekugcinweni kwemigaqo emininzi ebalulekileyo:

1. Bobabini abazali kufuneka babandakanyeke kumntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo siva ukuba ukukhulisa umntwana "akuyiyo ishishini lomntu." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iinyanga zokuqala zobomi umntwana ufuna ngokwenene kunomama wakhe. Kodwa umsebenzi wale ndoda ngeli xesha liza kunika umama ngoncedo olunokwenzeka ukuze abe nethuba lokufumana amandla nokuphumla. Ukongezelela, emva kweenyanga ezintandathu, umntwana uqala ukwenza uluvo lwentsapho. Ngoko ke, ubukho bukayise bubaluleke kakhulu.
2. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi kubalulekile ukunceda umntwana akhule kakuhle kwaye adle ngokweminyaka. Ungamnceda umntwana ahlale phantsi, aphendule intloko, okanye avuke ezinyaweni zakhe. Oku kunokukhokelela ekutheni, ngenxa yokuba amathambo kunye nezihlunu azikabi.
3. Imfundo yabantwana 1 iminyaka yobomi kufuneka isondelelene nomama. Oku kuncedisa ekuphuhliseni kwakhe okulungileyo kunye nophuhliso lwengqondo. Ngexesha elifanayo, zama ukuthatha umntwana ezandleni zakho kaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwiinyanga ezi-4, ukuze anethuba lokukhula ngokomzimba. Kwanele nje ukuba abe kwintsimi yakhe yombono.
4. Phantse kwiinyanga eziyi-9-11 umntwana uqala ukwesaba abanye abantu. Uqhotyoshelwe ngakumbi kwinto ebona rhoqo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfana uhleli naye, ngoko unokusondela kuye kunokuba abazali bakhe.
5. Omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo wokukhulisa abantwana kunyaka wokuqala wobomi kukuphuhliswa kwememori kunye nokuva. Ukususela ekuzalweni kunye nomntwana kubalulekile ukuthetha nokusebenzisa izandi ezahlukahlukeneyo, kubandakanywa nezigubhu. Xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba, musa ukuphinda uphinde ulandele izilwanyana zakhe emva kwakhe. Ingane inokucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthetha, kwaye oku kuya kubakhokelela ekuphosakeleleni kwentetho.
6. Zama ukuyeka ukuncelisa ilanga ngunyaka wokuqala wobomi. Ubisi lwebele kuphela lunceda ukuqinisa umkhuhlane womntwana. Ukulungiswa kufuneka kuqaliswe kwiinyanga ezili-6 ngokwetafile yeemveliso ezivumelekileyo.

Ukuqonda ngokucacileyo indlela yokukhulisa umntwana ukuya kunyaka, siwahlula le nkqubo kwiinqanaba eziliqela:

Iinyanga ezi-3. Ngethuba lokuqala lemfundo ukususela kwi-0 ukuya kunyaka kubalulekile ukwenza lo mkhwa olandelayo kumntwana: ukulala esitratweni ngaphandle kwe-pacifier, uchithe ixesha elithile kwisibhedlele wedwa, bonise umama ukuba lixesha lokutshintsha i-diaper, uhambe kwithuba kunye nezandi kunye nombono. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukuqala rhoqo ekuseni ukunyamekela ngononophelo, ukukhusela umntwana ekuhlambulukeni. Kubalulekile ukutshintsha i-diaper ngexesha. Umntwana makafunde ukugcina intloko nokuhamba.

Iinyanga ezi-6. Ixesha lokulungiselela umntwana ngentetho ezayo. Mbandakanya umculo weklasikhi, iingoma zezingane. Ukuqwalasela izandi ezahlukeneyo zomntwana - ukugquma kwamaqabunga, ukucula kweentaka, isandi seemoto. Ncedisa umntwana ukuba azi ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kulo xesha kubalulekile ukudlala nomntwana. Kodwa kuphela ngexesha alalilala ngayo. Zama ukuhleka ngaphezulu nomntwana. Kanye kunye novuyo lomntwana ekukhulumeni nawe kwi-psyche, iziseko zokuziphatha ziyafakwa.

Iinyanga ezi-9. Umntwana usebenza kakhulu. Uqala ukukhwela, uhlale phantsi, kwaye abanye abantwana sele beqala ukuhamba. Okubaluleke kakhulu kweli nqanaba lokukhulisa umntwana ngumsebenzi wenyama. Kule minyaka, unokuqala ukuqhelisa umntwana embizeni uze uhlambe izandla ngaphambi kokutya. Kungekudala umntwana uya kusetshenziselwa le nkqubo, kwaye iya kuba yinto evamile. Umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukubonisa apho umtshini, amehlo, indlebe, amazinyo. Okokuqala kuwe, ngoko kwiimathoyilo kwaye emva kancinci. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana "ilungelo" lokudlala: ibhola kunye nomshini ofuna ukuyigqitha, kwaye ukuhambisa i-jula kufuneka ucinezele iqhosha. Ngeli xesha elifanayo, unokufundisa umntwana ukuba "akunakwenzeka." Qinisekisa ukuba uchaze ukuba kutheni le nto okanye le nyathelo.

Ukukhulisa ukufikelela unyaka. Umntwana ufunda ngokunyanisekileyo ukuhamba. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana akawi kuwa. Musa ukumemeza xa umntwana ewa, kungenjalo uya kumsongela, kwaye uyayeka ukuzama ukuhamba. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agqithise umatshini ngokwakhe, athathe into enokutya kwaye adle, adibe ngesando phantsi, njl. Bonisa umntwana ohlukeneyo ngesimo, umbala kunye nesakhiwo sezinto. Kulula ukudlala kunye nayo kwiminwe yeminwe. Dumise umntwana wakho xa enento yokwenza. Yenza isimo sengqondo sengqondo somntwana kwizihlobo. Futhi khumbula into ephambili - umntwana wakho, okokuqala, ukukopisha indlela abaziphatha ngayo kubazali bakhe.

Ukuba unqume ukufundisisa iindlela zokufundisa abantwana kuze kube unyaka, ezi zilandelayo zihamba kunye nabalobi ziya kukunceda: ubuchule bukaMaria Montessori, uLeonid Bereslavsky, u-Waldorf ufundisa kunye ne-Glen Doman.