Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayathinteka xa usana lusana isantombazana kwaye lugcoba ngokuzonwabisa. Ziyakhunjulwa kuphela xa umntwana engakwazi ukulala kwakhona. Makhe sizame ukuqonda isizathu sokuba umntwana akwenze oku kwaye angamnceda njani ukuba anamnwe ngomunwe
Kutheni umntwana enamunwe?
Ngoku kuyaziwa ukuba umntwana unako ukuncela umnwe kweso sizalo sikamama. Nangona kunjalo, akukho ncazelo ecacileyo kutheni akwenza oku okwamanje. Ngaphambili, akazange afake ukubaluleka okubalulekileyo kwinto yokuba umntwana usana ngomnwe. Kwakucingelwa nje umkhwa omubi, okufuneka ulahleke kuwo. Ngoku bathetha ukuba le nto ayiyinkinga enjalo, njengoko kubonakala ngathi ekuqalekeni. Uninzi oogqirha baya kwisigqibo sokuba isizathu sokuba umntwana athathe umnwe ngumxholongwane onganelisekanga. Kodwa kukho izizathu ezingaphezulu:
- Amazinyo omntwana aqoshiwe;
- umntwana akayidli.
Kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqwalasela ukuba umntwana uqala ukunamana ngomnwe emva konyaka. Izizathu eziphambili zokuba kwenzeke ntoni lokhu:
- i-crumb yaxiliswa kakhulu kwisifuba;
- Uthando oluncinane kunye nomsa;
- uxinzelelo lwengqondo, ukwesaba;
- Esinye isizathu esibalulekileyo kukuba umntwana unokuba neebhubu. Kwi-helminthic infestations, abantwana baninzi banamathela iminwe, banakho ukubethelela izipikili zabo, njl.
Indlela yokunciphisa umntwana ukuba anamnwe ngomunwe?
Ukucoca umntwana ngomunwe kunokuqala ukuqala kwiinyanga ezi-2.5. Kwaye kufuneka ulwe nomnqweno ngokukhawuleza. Xa umntwana eba nomkhwa wokutshiza umnwe, kuya kuba nzima kunzima ukujamelana nale ngxaki. Ukuba ubonile ukuba umntwana udonsa iminwe emlonyeni wakho, akufuneki ukukhala ngokukhawuleza, ukukhipha iminwe yakho emlonyeni wakho. Oku kunokubangela uxinzelelo.
Zama ukubamba umntwana usalinde kwibele, yibambe. Ukuba umntwana uncelisekile, kucetyiswa ukunciphisa isabelo kunye nokutya ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukunika ingqwalasela engakumbi.
Ukuba umntwana uhlala ephuza iminwe yakhe, ke ungabakhuzi, kodwa unikele enye - ingono. Ukulimala kwabalandeli be-pacifiers kugxininisa kakhulu. Kwimeko yethu, unokunceda kakhulu. Nangona umntwana omdala angakwazi ukuyeka ukuthambisa iminwe yakhe.
Ungasebenzisi iindlela ezinzulu ezifana ne:
- ukubuyisela kwakhona izandla zakho;
- sasaza i-handle kunye nesardadi.
Uninzi lwale ndlela alusebenzi kwaye lunokukhathaza ngengqondo yengane yomntwana. Ukusebenzisa kangcono indlela kagogo endala, kuba beyazi indlela yokunyamekela ukunyanzela umunwe wakho kunye nezona zininzi eziqhelekileyo. Abazithandi iintsana kakhulu kwaye emva kwexesha umntwana uyayeka ukudonsa izibambo emlonyeni. Enyanisweni, umntu unokuthi le nto yindlela enzima. Nangona kunjalo, akuyimfuneko ukwenza loo nto, ama-mittens angatyelwa kwindwangu ephothiweyo yekotton kwaye xa umntwana elele elele, awathabathe.
Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuncothula abancinci abafazi befashoni - ukuba benze umququzelelo, mhlawumbi, kuya kuba nesihlwele ukuphazamisa ubuhle.
Njengoko uyakubona, sikunikezele kwisisombululo seengxaki, kwaye ngoku yonke umama unokuphendula umbuzo othi "Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana ecela umunwe?". Emva koko, uyaqonda kwaye uzive engcono kumntwana wakhe. Into eyona nto ayikukuba ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga nendlela yokululela umntwana wakho ukuba anamnwe iminwe yakho. Konke okufanayo, kungekudala kamva umntwana uyayeka ukudonsa izibambo emlonyeni wakhe.
Inqaku elithandekayo. Umbuzo othi: "Kutheni umntwana emana ngomnwe?" I-yogis yaseNdiya inempendulo. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba iminwe yethu ibonakaliswe ngamagunya ombane. Ukuba ezinye iziko lonina azikho umyalelo, umntwana uvakalelwa ukutshiswa komnwe kwaye uyifaka emlonyeni ukuyipholisa. Umzekelo, xa umntwana ethabatha isithupha kwi-handle handle, oku kubonisa ukuba umama usebenza ngamandla kwaye kufuneka akhululeke ngakumbi.